The technique I call “push-pull” involves mixing up an interaction. The push part is when you get closer to her and become more friendly and intimate and complimentary. The pull part is when you move away, break the connection, and seem a little disinterested or distracted.
Push-pull is great because it accomplishes a couple of things:
It establishes you as high status—other guys wouldn’t dare do this!
It gives her an emotional rollercoaster ride, a necessary ingredient for a great pickup. (Push-pull works especially well on sassy girls—the tougher and more confident and testier the better. It can fall flat on the sweet, innocent type, so don’t use it on
every
girl you meet.)
Here are some examples of lines you can use for this effect:
“You’re like my bratty little sister.”
“Do you have hot friends?”
“Would you like me to buy you a drink?”
“You’re too young/old for me.”
“Wow, you ask loads of questions. Do you want my résumé?”
“You’re a nice girl with bad-girl mannerisms.”
“You’re a bad girl with nice-girl mannerisms.”
“Normally I’d be really attracted to you, but I think you’re just acting cool so I’ll buy you a drink.”
“Your first impression kind of sucked, but actually you’re …”
“You’re the coolest girl I’ve talked to … in the last fifteen minutes!”
“You’re cool … you can help me pick up chicks.”
