The Natural: How to Effortlessly Attract the Women You Want (21 page)

The hook point is that moment when a girl shows interest in extending the interaction. She’s clearly happy for you to stick around and talk more. You can tell you’ve reached the hook point when:

  She asks you questions.

  She asks your name.

  She gives extended answers to your questions.

  Her body language becomes more open.

Once you’ve reached the hook point, you should look for indicators of sexual interest. You’ll know she’s sexually interested when:

  She strokes her neck when in conversation with you.

  She looks at your mouth.

  She tilts her head to the side when speaking to you.

  Her pupils dilate.

  She laughs too much at your jokes, even when they aren’t funny.

  She seems happy listening to you, even when you’re talking rubbish.

  She holds eye contact with you and doesn’t look around the room or at her friends.

Note:
if she’s nervous, or if it’s just not in her character to hold strong eye contact, she could still be interested.

  She’s comfortable with your touching her and invading her space.

  She shows willingness to leave her friends and stay with you.