The Energy of Words: Use the Vibration of Language to Manifest the Life You Desire (19 page)

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Chapter 10); however, “Happiness Guy” is the positive,

truth-seeking, deep, and philosophical 7, highlighting that we must live our truth to be truly happy. To be truly happy, we

must discover and live our truth as Ricky has, even in the

midst of unhappiness. Using this title, Ricky not only rep-

resents his own path and what he did in his own life to find

happiness, but he also sends out the energetic message that

he can help others find their own truth and begin living it as well.

Treva Etienne, Actor and Director

I first met Treva Etienne on a radio show where I did a live

numerological profile on him. He was not only my first offi-

cial celebrity client, it was also the start of a very special and pivotal friendship for me—one I didn’t expect to happen.

After the radio interview, Treva called me to thank me for

the reading and to say how accurate and insightful it was for

him. I could sense his genuineness and we ended the conver-

sation by saying we would keep in touch. I knew it wasn’t

just a nicety; he meant what he said.

We have indeed kept in touch over the years, and it is a

friendship I value greatly. One of the things I admire about

him is his belief that we each need to live our truth, not anyone else’s, in order to be truly happy and content. Although

Treva has had a multitude of roles in major motion pictures,

television shows, and commercials over the years and is an

accomplished actor and director, he has always been firm in

his outlook that he refused to step outside what he feels is

true to him in order to succeed. Many Hollywood stars sell

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their souls to make it on the big screen. Yet Treva is a perfect example of how living in alignment with what feels right to

you will always get you to exactly where you need to be in

life, whether it is by the actions you take or the words you

choose to speak. No compromises necessary:

“What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger” has fol-

lowed me all my life. I have been in challenging situa-

tions where that phrase has propelled me to keep

moving onward and don’t look back to slow me

down.

A few years back, I sold a TV comedy show to a

new network that was looking for a new comedy idea

like mine. I was brought in to create my production

team, cast the show with comedians, and work on the

pilot. If they liked the pilot and the network gave the

green light, I was to do thirteen episodes. I shot the

pilot and everyone loved it, so I was set to shoot the

full thirteen. Instead, I discovered that the production

company and my hand-picked producer had con-

spired to compensate another director to whom the

production company owed money. They gave the

other director the thirteen-episode job and told me

that I wasn’t good enough. This news—two days be-

fore Christmas—was devastating, and I felt the be-

trayal of my friend whom had agreed to keep the

news from me in order to keep her producer job that I

had fought hard to get for her.

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“What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger” kept

going through my head. I believed in myself, and I

went on to win a best short film award with HBO and

another best short film award at the Hollywood

Scarefest film festival for another film I wrote and di-

rected.

I continue to live my life with that phrase and

share it with friends and people I meet who forget

they always have the power, strength, and choice to

keep moving forward and believe in their destiny.

As you can see, through all of the amazing examples in this

chapter of star-studded word power, the rich and famous are

just like the rest of us, creating what they desire in the exact same way. No matter who you are or what your list of accomplishments might be, the words you choose to think,

speak, and write have a powerful influence on your life, mo-

ment by moment, and they are constantly shaping your des-

tiny.

The key words in the phrase “what doesn’t kill you makes

you stronger” are “kill” and “stronger.” Even though they are

opposing words based on their dictionary meanings, “kill”

and “stronger” are both 8 frequencies. However, like Ricky’s

example above, these two words add to the truth-seeker

number 7 (8 + 8 = 16 and 1 + 6 = 7). Those double 8 wis-

dom-filled words combine to allow Treva to find the deeper,

more significant truth in his experiences through the 7 en-

ergy. It urged him to look beyond the superficial to the

greater picture or deeper truth inherent in the situation and

his life.

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Conclusion

That’s a wrap, folks! You now have all the tools, knowledge,

and steps to change your life using the energy of words. The

goal of the book was to create a more mindful view of the

words you choose to use based on the knowledge that they

can also influence what you create and how. The words you

use are creating and shaping your reality moment by mo-

ment; choose them wisely.

The power of words and their profound ability to shape

our destiny is often the most overlooked, yet is one of the

most vital pieces in consistently and successfully applying the law of attraction. If your life isn’t going the way you imagined it to be, look no further for the solution than the words you use every day. The golden rule of the energetic world is

that all things are energy, including words. Think of energy

as a medium you can mold and shape as you desire. Each

word has a positive and negative side, yet there are no “good”

or “bad” words—only positive or negative vibrations. How

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you choose to use those vibrations—whether thought, spo-

ken, or written—is the deciding factor in what you want to

create in your world. Remember, it is as much the word vi-

brations themselves as it is the energy and feeling you put behind them. If you focus on the negative side of a word, your

life will reflect that negativity on some level.

The recommended reading section at the end of the book

will get you started on the journey. But for the information

in this book to truly work manifesting magic in your life,

you’ll want to add your personal style and flavor by creating

your own unique list using the word conversion chart in

Chapter 3. Use notebook or folder to keep all your word lists

in the same place for easy reference. Like any transforma-

tional program, it has to resonate with you or you won’t stick with it to create lasting change. Your success boils down to

what you believe to be true in your world. Words can have all

the power or none of it, depending on the energy you give

them. The choice is all yours.

As you take inventory of your words and exchange some

or all for new ones, remember that some things are just

meant to be, especially when it comes to names and labels.

Go with your gut in the end, even if a name or label vibra-

tion appears not to be a match for you on an energetic level.

It may be that you need that name for various “hidden” rea-

sons or to accomplish an important life lesson. You might

never know the full reason behind why you need certain

words or labels in your life, but you can go with how you feel about it. As I always say, if it feels good, do it! Aim for your
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gut to be the driving force behind changing any words in

your vocabulary. Manifesting in the positive is supposed to

feel good. Life is meant to be enjoyed, so have fun on your

word journey and happy manifesting!

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Top Positive and Negative Words

This section lists some of the words that changed the minds

of many throughout history. You now have them at your fin-

gertips, and you are able to use them to shape your own life

as you wish. This section is meant to serve two functions: 1)

to help you rewrite your personal jargon list in the positive, and 2) to act as a reference or guide going forward.

The positive word list contains fewer examples in the

word descriptions than the negative words list, as imagining

and creating is easier with a positive word than a negative

one, despite the fact that the average personal jargon list contains more negative words than positive. The following lists

can be added to and expanded; there are many more positive

and negative words in existence that might deserve some

spotlight. Feel free to add to the lists or create one that is entirely your own. The words you choose to include in your

daily life need to completely resonate with you in order to

manifest the life you truly want.

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Top Positive Words

Absolutely (6)

Meaning:
“Absolutely” vibrates to the 6, the number of

creativity, the nurturer, and the visionary. When used in

the positive, “absolutely” produces a feeling of certainty

with whatever it is used in reference to. The 6 affords the

ability to see the bigger picture as connect-the-dots vi-

sionary energy. In the negative, as in “absolutely not,” it

can create feelings of judgment, pessimism, and criti-

cism, which are the opposing traits of the creative vi-

sionary 6 vibration.

Positive: creative visionary, certainty, balanced, nurtur-

ing, peace-making, optimistic, and forward-thinking.

Negative: pessimistic, judgmental, critical, worry-wart,

people-pleasing, doubtful, and gossipy.

Abundant (8)

Meaning:
“Abundant” vibrates to the 8, the number of wisdom, independence, confidence, and manifestation. As

the most active soul-plane number and the energy of

confidence, the 8 in the positive doesn’t doubt, naturally

allowing for the flow of abundance to come into our

lives. In the negative, the 8 energy turns greedy, domi-

nating, and selfish—not the kind of abundant energy

that is sustaining and fulfilling long term.

Positive: wise, confident, assertive, independent, mani-

festing, assured, and loving.

Negative: detached, selfish, greedy, dominating, bossy,

and attention-seeking.

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Achieve (8)

Meaning:
“Achieve” vibrates to the 8, the number of wisdom, independence, confidence, and manifestation. As the

most active soul-plane number and the energy of confi-

dence, 8 in the positive doesn’t doubt, allowing you to

achieve success readily and easily, believing wholeheart-

edly that you can achieve what you set out to accomplish.

In the negative, “achieve” turns to the egocentric qualities

of the 8, aiming to achieve a selfish, dominating, and

greed-filled agenda.

Positive: wise, confident, assertive, independent, mani-

festing, assured, and loving.

Negative: detached, selfish, greedy, dominating, bossy,

and attention-seeking.

Agree (9)

Meaning:
“Agree” vibrates to the 9, the ambitious, idealistic, responsible, humanitarian number. The 9 is responsible

for all the incredible achievements seen in the previous

century as everyone had at least one 9 in their date of

birth. The 9 is the most active mental number, the highest

change vibration, and considered the “big dreamer.” The

black-and-white, right-and-wrong energy of the 9 gives

“agree” its finality. When you “agree,” you are making a

decision; “I agree to side with you.” In the negative,

“agree” is more demanding, pulling from the opinionated

and judgmental side of the 9; “I can’t agree with you on

that one, I just don’t see it that way.”

Positive: humanitarian, ambitious, responsible, jus-

tice-seeking, idealistic, and unselfish.

Negative: driven, opinionated, judgmental, critical, black

and white, and narrow-minded.

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Alive (4)

Meaning:
“Alive” vibrates to the 4, the solid, stable, practical, and balanced foundation number. Considered the number of the “doer,” it provides the word “alive” with the

extra physical exertion to soar on all levels. To feel “alive”

is to feel grounded in the physical, feeling capable of

going after your goals and dreams. In the negative, 4 is

materialistic and self-absorbed in the physical plane. Feel-

ing “alive” then manifests in the negative side of the 4 as

seeking gratifying physical activities like drugs, alcohol,

sex, shopping, or other physical-based pleasures.

Positive: endurance, progress, foundation, practical, bal-

anced, organization, solid, stable, and loyal.

Negative: materialistic, impatient, addictive, instant grat-

ification, and self-absorbed.

Amaze (1)

Meaning:
“Amaze” vibrates to the number 1, with the isolated pioneer, new beginnings, and trailblazing energy.

The 1 is the only number not divisible by any other num-

ber, so it is a stand-alone energy. When we amaze through