Incredible Sex (52 Brilliant Little Ideas)
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Authors: Marcelle Perks,Elisabeth Wilson
Incredible
sex
CAREFUL NOW
Follow the tips in this book and you should find yourself reaching the sexual heights every time. However, there are no guarantees in life so if things don’t go your way first time we can’t be held responsible. Make sure you treat your lover with care and respect and if he or she isn’t happy with any of the ideas you want to try out go slow and don’t pressurise. And remember, practice makes perfect!
Infinite Ideas would like to thank Peter Cross, Sabina Dosani, Marcelle Perks, Helena Frith Powell and Elisabeth Wilson for their contributions to this book.
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Brilliant ideas
1.
Dream time
Sexual fantasy – a short cut to great sex.
There is nothing,
nothing
, quite as sexy as someone who knows how to flirt properly. They can make your toes tingle and your legs turn to jelly.
3.
Partner play
Practical exercises to keep you both buzzing.
Once you’ve got there, perhaps you won’t want to come back down. For multiple orgasms or extra stimulation, lend yourself a hand.
5.
Heading south
Enjoy the journey and she’ll be ecstatic.
Some positions work extra hard to stimulate your clitoris. Try the CAT and the PUSSY and see if you meow.
Find ways to immortalise your other life – the one devoted to passion. Anything from taking photos to making your own home movie can keep the passion flowing.
Remember the initial excitement of the first hot date, the first kiss and the first time you ever woke up together?
9.
Eight things to do with your tongue that (some) clitorises like
The secret to giving great oral sex is to remember that the recipient has to be able to concentrate.
The whip and the flesh, inside the world of S and M. The pleasure of pain and sweet submission.
11.
Assume the position
…but ring the changes
Quickie sex in half the time – and ways to satisfy each other when you don’t have time to go all the way.
13. Advanced Rabbiting
G it up and get a multiple buzz!
14.
Solo player
One of the best ways to maintain your sex drive is to set regular pleasure sessions – with yourself.
15.
Dressing up and staying in
Acting out fantasies takes a bit of practice, but can certainly brighten up a boring Saturday night.
A good sex life is the key to being incredibly sexy, and fantasies have a large role to play in ensuring that.
17.
Shivering with anticipation
Just the thought of your new lover or favourite fantasy can make you wet. Charge yourself up into an erotic good mood.
18.
Water fun (for her mainly)
If you’re wise, the bathroom is the place to go to get dirty.
19.
Beyond the beyond
Tips for the sexually adventurous (not for the faint-hearted).
Explore voyeurism and exhibitionism and bring a completely new verboten edge to your love life
There’s nothing quite like a bit of splashing and thrashing around in water, especially if it’s combined with a bit of aqua erotica!
22.
Think kink
Remember: we don’t always get what we want. But we can ask.
Different ways to get both your genitals glowing. Don’t think prelude to penetration, savour it as the main event.
24.
Easy routes to faster orgasms for her
Quicker, harder, faster? How to come more easily.
25.
Alternative erogenous zones
The most obvious places may not be your top erogenous zones. Do you know what really turns you on?
Surprise your lover sexually every week for a year and you can bet you won’t be collecting any ‘boring in bed’ prizes.
27.
Short cuts to better orgasms
We’re coming over all PC.
Better orgasms mean more effort, and a buzzing vibrator and a drawer full of sex toys helps you go at it longer.
Delay orgasm – a.k.a. ‘peaking’ – and you’ll know the true meaning of ‘climb every mountain’.
The idea of tantric sex is that instead of rushing towards an orgasm, you delay for as long as possible in order to merge with your lover in body, mind and spirit.
31.
The ABC of vibes
Choosing the best vibrator material and shape for your needs.
Bringing your partner off with your hand is a staple of a good sex life and for men an essential skill to develop as this is the only way many women can come during intercourse.
33.
Dirty little secrets
Why every couple needs some.
How do you get on with those old favourites? You know – the ones you’re sure even your mum knows.
Some women see being pregnant as an excuse not to have sex. Madness. Sex when you’re pregnant is brilliant.
36.
Paying for it 1
Slut sex can be a turn-on for both of you.
Casual sex is an exciting alternative to traditional relationships. It can be an emotional minefield, though, so here’s how to have the spark without getting burned.
Who knew that going to the shops could be so good for your love life?
It feels good to give pleasure to your partner. You want to hear those moans. Here are a few tricks to put up your sleeve.
40.
Blow jobs 101
Put a little thought into your next blow job – he’ll appreciate it.
Alternative girl’s-gotta-have-it zones within the vagina. That mysterious wee thing, the G-spot. Talk about best of both worlds!
42.
Heading even further south
Few things in life will earn you so much gratitude for a moderate amount of effort as giving great head.
43.
More on blow jobs
Can you ever know too much?
The first time someone ties you up is a revelation. You are no longer in control and with that comes a feeling of total abandonment.
Even if it wasn’t talked about much, rear entry has always been mainstream – it’s the original form of birth control.
Steep yourself in the mysterious wonders of the Far East, where not coming is the goal.
47.
Paying for it 2
The Hotel Room.
48.
Danger
Danger is the fastest-acting aphrodisiac.
For a different buzz, try cutting off one of the senses – it can intensify the others. Just when you thought you’d tried it all, discover the sublime art of sensory deprivation.
50.
Say it loud, say it proud – the art of talking dirty
I know. You can only bring yourself to talk dirty when you’re drunk. Very drunk. So drunk that next morning you can’t remember what you said.
51.
Seeing is believing
Are you doing the grown-up thing – looking at each other enough during sex? Here are some ways to position yourself so that you can see how you feel.
52.
C
oming over all touchy-feely
Learn to express sensuality with your whole body.
You’re probably thinking that the kind of people who write about sex must be sexperts or, at the very least, enthusiastic sexpots and that you’ll be unlikely to find any ideas suitable for you. But the success of a book promising to transform your sex life doesn't lie in its risqué content. A sex book will only work if it's do-able. Readers should want to act on the suggestions rather than just read them for vicarious thrills or, more likely, in growing consternation.
This is a book of sex suggestions and solutions, whether you’re young, free and single and want to get more out of your sexual encounters or you’ve been married for years and need some new ideas to have better sex with the person you’re with. All the ideas have been tried and tested by real couples and in many cases we can vouch for the ideas taking our own sex lives to new highs. The information is broadly aimed at heterosexuals, although we hope that it will appeal to the whole spectrum of couples – gay, straight and everything in between. Similarly, if you’re single or don’t have a regular partner, please don’t cringe at all the tips aimed at regular couples. Just store the advice up for the future, for a time when you can get to test the ideas out.