How to Rise Above Abuse (Counseling Through the Bible Series) (68 page)

23
. Brown, Driver, and Briggs, eds.,
Hebrew-Aramaic and English Lexicon of the Old Testament.

24
. See Crabb,
Understanding People
, 15-16; McGee,
The Search for Significance
, 27-30.

1
. For this section see
Merriam-Webster’s Collegiate Dictionary
, electronic ed. (New York: Merriam-Webster, 2001), s.v. “Victim.”

2
. James Strong,
Strong’s Hebrew Lexicon
, electronic ed. (Winterbourne, Ontario: Timnathserah Inc., 2002).

3
. “2 Arrested in Killing of U.S. Boy in Italy,”
Wilmington Morning Star
(November 2, 1994), 6A.

4
. Reg Green, “A Child’s Legacy of Love,”
http://nicholasgreen.org/articles.html
.

5
. See
http://www.nicholasgreen.org
.

6
. See
http://www.nicholasgreen.org
.

7
. See
http://www.nicholasgreen.org
.

8
. For this section see Malcolm Smith,
No Longer a Victim
(Tulsa, OK: Pillar, 1992), 9-10.

9
. Stormie Omartian,
Stormie
(Eugene, OR: Harvest House, 1986), 43.

10
. June Hunt,
June 1987 Stormie Omartian interview transcript
, 5.

11
. June Hunt,
June 1987 Stormie Omartian interview transcript
, 4.

12
. Omartian,
Stormie
, 60.

13
. June Hunt,
June 1987 Stormie Omartian interview transcript
, 6.

14
. Omartian,
Stormie
, 75-84.

15
. Omartian,
Stormie
, 115.

16
. Omartian,
Stormie
, 117.

17
. Omartian,
Stormie
, 139.

18
. Omartian,
Stormie
, 139-40.

19
. Omartian,
Stormie
, 141.

20
. Omartian,
Stormie
, 156.

21
. See
http://www.stormieomartian.com
.

22
. Harvest House Publishers, “Author Detail: Stormie Omartian,”
http://www.harvesthousepublishers.com/books_authordetail.cfm?ED_ID=10277
.

23
. Candace Walters,
Invisible Wounds
(Portland, OR: Multnomah, 1987), 62.

24
. One pound equals .454 kilograms. One hundred and fifty pounds equals 68.1 kilograms.

25
. Ellen Bass and Laura Davis,
The Courage to Heal: A Guide for Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse
(New York: Harper & Row, 1988), 49.

26
. For the three God-given inner needs, see Lawrence J. Crabb, Jr.,
Understanding People: Deep Longings for Relationship
(Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 1987), 15-16; Robert S. McGee,
The Search for Significance
, 2nd ed. (Houston, TX: Rapha, 1990), 27-30.

27
. Rich Buhler,
Pain and Pretending
(Nashville: Thomas Nelson, 1991), 65.

28
. David A. Stoop,
Living with a Perfectionist
(Nashville: Oliver-Nelson, 1987), 44-45.

29
. Stoop,
Living with a Perfectionist
, 36.

30. For this section see Bass and Davis,
The Courage to Heal
, 213, 217-219; Joyce Meyer,
Beauty for Ashes: Receiving Emotional Healing
(Tulsa, Okla.: Harrison House, 1994), 29-30.

31
. See Carmen Renee Berry and Mark W. Baker,
Who’s to Blame? Escape the Victim Trap & Gain Personal Power in Your Relationships
(Colorado Springs, CO: Piñon, 1996), 35-40, 52-58.

32
. See Berry and Baker,
Who’s to Blame
, 49-60; Lynda D. Elliott and Vicki L. Tanner,
My Father’s Child: Help and Healing for the Victims of Emotional, Sexual, and Physical Abuse
(Brentwood, TN : Wolgemuth & Hyatt, 1988), 7-8.

33
. Walters,
Invisible Wounds
, 62.

34
. Buhler,
Pain and Pretending
, 65.

35
. Elliott and Tanner,
My Father’s Child
, 9-12.

36
. Karen Randau,
Conquering Fear
(Dallas: Rapha, 1991), 44.

37
. H. Norman Wright,
Anger
(Waco, TX: Word, 1980), audiocassette.

38
. Wright,
Anger.

39
. See Crabb,
Understanding People
, 15-16; McGee,
The Search for Significance
27-30.

40
. Gary Jackson Oliver and H. Norman Wright,
When Anger Hits Home
(Chicago: Moody, 1992), 97.

41
. Wright,
Anger.

42
. Crabb,
Understanding People
, 15-16; McGee,
The Search for Significance
, 27.

43
. Wright,
Anger.

44
. Crabb,
Understanding People
, 15-16; McGee,
The Search for Significance
, 27.

45
. Dan B. Allender,
The Wounded Heart
(Colorado Springs, CO: NavPress, 1990), 183-97.

46
. Elliott and Tanner,
My Father’s Child
, 109-24.

47
. Allender,
The Wounded Heart
, 197.

48
. Meyer,
Beauty for Ashes: Receiving Emotional Healing
, 52-53.

49
. Bass and Davis,
The Courage to Heal
, 134-36.

50
. Malcolm Smith,
No Longer a Victim
(Tulsa, OK: Pillar, 1992), 25-27.

51
. Allender,
The Wounded Heart
, 227-29.

52
. John Nieder and Thomas M. Thompson,
Forgive & Love Again: Healing Wounded Relationships
(Eugene, OR: Harvest House, 1991), 51-56.

53
. David Augsburger,
The Freedom of Forgiveness
, rev. and exp. ed. (Chicago: Moody, 1988), 18.

54
. Alexander Pope,
Essay on Criticism
, part 2, line 325.

55
. Doris Van Stone and Erwin W. Lutzer,
No Place to Cry: The Hurt and Healing of Sexual Abuse
(Chicago: Moody, 1990), 90-92.

56
. Laura L. Finley,
Encyclopedia of Juvenile Violence
(Santa Barbara, CA: Greenwood Publishing Group, 2006), 123.

57
. Laura L. Finley,
Encyclopedia of Juvenile Violence
, 123.

58
. Beth Nimmo, Darrell Scott, and Steve Rabey,
Rachel’s Tears
(Nashville: Thomas Nelson, 2000), 90.

59
. Nimmo, Scott, and Rabey,
Rachel’s Tears
, 90.

60
. Randy Patrick, “Thirteen Tears: A Columbine Legacy,”
Newer World
(April 19, 2009), 2. See
http://kyvoice.com/winchestersun/newerworld/?p=418
.

61
. David Van Biema, Julie Grace, and Emily Mitchell, “A Surge of Teen Spirit,”
Time
(May 31, 1999).

62
. See
http://kyvoice.com/winchestersun/newerworld/?p=418
, accessed March 19, 2010.

63
. See
http://kyvoice.com/winchestersun/newerworld/?p=418
, entry by “Mark Francis” dated April 20, 2009 at 11:04 p.m., accessed March 19, 2010.

64
. See
http://kyvoice.com/winchestersun/newerworld/?p=418
, entry by “Luis” dated November 21, 2009 at 2:33 a.m., accessed March 19, 2010.

65
. See
http://kyvoice.com/winchestersun/newerworld/?p=418
, entry by “jeff walker” dated November 17, 2009 at 2:45 a.m., accessed March 19, 2010.

66
. Smith,
No Longer a Victim
, 33-35.

67
. David A. Seamands,
If Only
(Wheaton, IL: Victor, 1995), 59.

68
. Ken Blue,
Healing Spiritual Abuse
(Downer’s Grove, IL: InterVarsity, 1993), 120.

69
. See the Hebrew dictionary entry in James Strong,
Strong’s Exhaustive Concordance of the Bible
(Nashville: Abingdon, 1986), 17.

70
. See Brent Curtis,
Guilt
, ed. Tom Varney (Colorado Springs, CO: NavPress, 1992), 17-29.

71
. Doris Van Stone and Erwin Lutzer,
No Place to Cry: The Hurt and Healing of Sexual Abuse
(Chicago: Moody, 1990), 119.

1
.
What Every Congregation Needs to Know About Domestic Violence
(Seattle, WA: Center for the Prevention of Sexual and Domestic Violence, 1994), n.p.

2
. Carol Forsloff, “Health Workers Facilitate Wife Beating,”
Digital Journal
(February 1, 2009),
http://www.digitaljournal.com/article/266301
.

3
. See
American Heritage Electronic Dictionary
(New York: Houghton Mifflin, 1992).

4
. See
American Heritage Electronic Dictionary.

5
. See James Strong,
Strong’s Hebrew Lexicon
, electronic ed. (Online Bible Millennium Ed. v. 1.13) (Timnathserah Inc., July 6, 2002).

6
. Francis Brown, S.R. Driver, Charles Augustus Briggs,
Enhanced Brown-Driver-Briggs Hebrew and English Lexicon
, electronic ed. (Oak Harbor, WA: Logos Research Systems, 2000), 329.

7
. See Kathy L. Cawthon,
Getting Out: An Escape Manual for Abused Women
(Lafayette, LA: Huntington House, 1996), 22-23;
Family Violence and Addiction: Implications for Treatment
(n.p.: Texas Department of Human Services, 1989).

8
.
What Every Congregation Needs to Know About Domestic Violence
, n.p.

9
. Ron Christenson,
Political Trials: Gordian Knots in the Law
, 2nd ed. (New Brunswick, NJ: Transaction Publishers, 1999), 109.

10
. For information on the O.J. Simpson trial see Christenson,
Political Trials
, 107-10.

11
. Raoul Felder and Barbara Victor,
Getting Away with Murder: Weapons for the War Against Domestic Violence
(New York: Simon & Schuster, 1996), 27.

12
. J. David Woodard,
The America that Reagan Built
(Westport, CT: Praeger, 2006), 172.

13
. Trudy Marshall, “Did OJ Simpson Get $3.5 Million for Book?”
Associated Content
(October 30, 2006),
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/76556/did_oj_simpson_get_35_million_for_book.htm

14
. Gavin De Becker,
The Gift of Fear
(New York: Dell, 1998), 190.

15
. For different types of abuse see also Cawthon,
Getting Out
, 89-92.

16
. For these characteristics see Mentor Research Institute, “About Domestic Violence Against Men” (May 20, 2007),
http://www.oregoncounseling.org/Handouts/DomesticViolenceMen.htm
.

17
. Otto Weininger,
Sex and Character: An Investigation of Fundamental Principles
, trans. Ladislaus Lob, eds. Daniel Steuer and Laura Marcus (Bloomington, IN: Indiana University Press, 2005), 161, 163.

18
. See
Merriam-Webster’s Collegiate Dictionary
, electronic ed. (New York: Merriam-Webster, 2001).