The Energy of Words: Use the Vibration of Language to Manifest the Life You Desire (31 page)

number so it is a stand-alone energy. “Maybe” in the

negative utilizes the isolated and egocentric qualities of

the 1. In the negative, the focus of the 1 is exterior or

ego-focused, inhibiting the access of deeper truth within

to make a definitive decision; “Maybe I will, I just don’t

know what to do.” In the positive, the 1 affords potential

or possibility for “maybe” as the redirection of energy is

put on the determined, pioneering side of the 1;

“There’s no ‘maybe’ about it, I will pass this test.”

Positive: verbal self-expression, initiate, action, ambi-

tious, determined, and pioneering.

Negative: aggressive, egocentric, overly driven, self-ab-

sorbed, overachieving, and single-focused.

270 Top Positive and Negative Words

Need (1)

Meaning:
“Need” vibrates to the number 1, with the iso-

lated pioneer, new beginnings, and trailblazing energy.

The 1 is the only number not divisible by any other

number so it is a stand-alone energy. In the negative, the

single-focused, aggressive, and egocentric 1 works to

consume and collect, needing more to achieve, forget-

ting the true nature of the 1, which is a stand-alone

number, and perfect as it is. In the positive, the isolated

pioneering 1 is in need of nothing to feel whole and

complete; “There are a lot of things I want but nothing I

need.”

Positive: verbal self-expression, initiate, action, ambi-

tious, determined, and pioneering.

Negative: aggressive, egocentric, overly driven, self-ab-

sorbed, overachieving, and single-focused.

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Never (1)

Meaning:
“Never” vibrates to the number 1, with the isolated pioneer, new beginnings, and trailblazing energy.

The 1 is the only number not divisible by any other num-

ber so it is a stand-alone energy. “Never” emphasizes the

isolated and egocentric qualities of the 1. In the negative,

the focus of the 1 is exterior or ego-focused, limiting pos-

sibility or potential; “She’ll never take the leap; she doesn’t have it in her.” In the positive, the pioneering and trailblazing 1 takes charge; “Never say never!”

Positive: verbal self-expression, initiate, action, ambi-

tious, determined, and pioneering.

Negative: aggressive, egocentric, overly driven, self-ab-

sorbed, overachieving, and single-focused.

No (2)

Meaning:
“No” vibrates to the 2, the number of intuition, sensitivity, cooperation, and dualistic energy. In the negative, the dualistic energy of the 2 creates a separation

or a desire to be separate from whatever you are saying

no to. This separate energy also gives “no” a definitive

and firm response; “No, I’m not coming with you.” In

the positive, “no” has a similar stance with expressing

the desire to be separate, but with overtones of thought-

fulness, sensitivity, intuition, and harmony; “Thank you

for inviting me, but I have to say no to your offer.”

Positive: balance, cooperation, sensitive, intuitive, sup-

portive, and harmonious.

Negative: contrast, codependent, uncertain, submissive,

passive, and hypersensitive.

272 Top Positive and Negative Words

No Way (6)

Meaning:
“No way” vibrates to the 6, the number of creativity, the nurturer, and the visionary. The judgmental

and critical energies of the negative 6 make the phrase

“no way” a powerfully pessimistic statement limiting all

possibility; “There is no way I’m going to get this done.”

In the positive, the optimistic, forward-thinking vision-

ary opens the doorway to possibility; “There may seem

like no way to make this happen now, but where there’s

a will, there’s a way!”

Positive: creative visionary, certainty, balanced, nurtur-

ing, peace-making, optimistic, and forward-thinking.

Negative: pessimistic, judgmental, critical, worry-wart,

people-pleasing, doubtful, and gossipy.

Not (4)

Meaning:
“Not” vibrates to the 4, the solid, stable, practical, and balanced foundation number. In the negative,

depending on the use of “not,” the focus can be on the

impatience or loyalty of the 4; “I’m not going reach my

goal at this rate” or “She is not going to get away with

lying to me.” In the positive, the solid, stable, practical 4

says “not” is just a hurdle to overcome on the path;

“C’mon, it’s not that bad, let’s keep moving forward” or

“I’m not going to let a little setback stop me.”

Positive: endurance, progress, foundation, practical, bal-

anced, organization, solid, stable, and loyal.

Negative: materialistic, impatient, addictive, instant grat-

ification, and self-absorbed.

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Pain (4)

Meaning:
“Pain” vibrates to the 4, the solid, stable, practical, and balanced foundation number. Pain, whether it is

mental, emotional, or physical, is a result of some form

of loss or trauma. In the negative, the 4 loses the bal-

anced and solid energy it possesses and takes on the ad-

dictive, instant gratification, and self-absorbed traits to

deal with or process pain; “I just can’t deal with the pain

of this loss right now. All I want to do is sleep.” In the

positive, 4 is enduring, progressive, practical, and stable

in its outlook on pain; “No pain, no gain!”

Positive: endurance, progress, foundation, practical, bal-

anced, organization, solid, stable, and loyal.

Negative: materialistic, impatient, addictive, instant grat-

ification, and self-absorbed.

274 Top Positive and Negative Words

Problem (9)

Meaning:
“Problem” vibrates to the 9, the ambitious, idealistic, responsible humanitarian number. The 9 is responsi-

ble for all the incredible achievements seen in the previous

century; everyone born between 1889 and 1999 had at

least one 9 in their date of birth. The 9 is the most active

mental number, the highest change vibration, and consid-

ered the “big dreamer.” In the negative, the right-and-

wrong, justice-seeking energy of the 9 makes “problem”

a matter-of-fact or black-and-white issue; “The problem is

that she’s too shy.” In the positive, “problem” embraces

the ambitious and idealistic energies of the 9, turning

“problem” into more of a challenge to be overcome;

“That’s no problem, I can handle it.”

Positive: humanitarian, ambitious, responsible, jus-

tice-seeking, idealistic, and unselfish.

Negative: driven, opinionated, judgmental, critical, black

and white, and narrow-minded.

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Regret (1)

Meaning:
“Regret” vibrates to the number 1, with the isolated pioneer, new beginnings, and trailblazing energy.

The 1 is the only number not divisible by any other

number so it is a stand-alone energy. In the negative, “re-

gret” emphasizes the isolated and egocentric qualities of

the 1 and does not allow for seeing the deeper meaning

or truth in the cause of regret; “I regret saying those

hurtful things in anger but I don’t know how to make it

right with her.” In the positive, the 1 adds the deter-

mined and initiating energies to help resolve lingering

regret; “I regret blurting out that embarrassing state-

ment because it’s not what I really meant, but I’m deter-

mined to set things straight.”

Positive: verbal self-expression, initiate, action, ambi-

tious, determined, and pioneering.

Negative: aggressive, egocentric, overly driven, self-ab-

sorbed, overachieving, and single-focused.

Risk (3)

Meaning:
“Risk” vibrates to the 3, the intellectual number of imagination, memory, and inspiration. The 3 also represents unity or coming together. In the negative, the

self-doubting and self-critical 3 isn’t willing to take the

risk; “I just can’t risk being hurt again right now.” In the

positive, the optimistic, imaginative, and inspirational 3 is

willing to risk it all; “Let’s do this! I just know this idea is going to go viral.”

Positive: analytical, intelligent, humorous, social, sensi-

tive, observant, unity, and inspirational.

Negative: critical, vain, grandeur, self-doubting, self-criti-

cal, overanalyzing, and indecisive.

276 Top Positive and Negative Words

Shouldn’t (5)

Meaning:
“Shouldn’t” vibrates to the 5, the number of the heart, emotions, and compassionate “freedom of expression” energy. In the negative, the dominating and

bossy energies take over and “shouldn’t” is less centered

in the more positive-focused, loving, and passionate 5

energy; “You shouldn’t wear that; it doesn’t look appro-

priate for your body type.” In the positive, the loving,

compassionate, flexible 5 energy may make a heart-cen-

tered suggestion but doesn’t push it on anyone, allowing

for freedom of expression; “I’m not saying you should

or you shouldn’t, I’m just sharing what I would do. It’s

your choice in the end.”

Positive: loving, sensitive, irregular, artistic, freedom-

seeking, passionate, and flexible.

Negative: uncertain, power-hungry, dominating, bossy,

withdrawn, and moody.

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Struggle (1)

Meaning
: “Struggle” vibrates to the number 1, with the isolated pioneer, new beginnings, and trailblazing energy.

The 1 is the only number not divisible by any other num-

ber so it is a stand-alone energy. “Struggle” emphasizes

the isolated and separated qualities of the 1 in the nega-

tive. When we feel separated or isolated, we believe there

is more of a struggle ahead of us; “I had to struggle for

everything I’ve accomplished with no help from anyone.”

In the positive, “struggle” is fuel for motivation of the

trailblazing and driven 1; “I’m determined to stop the

struggle and start living.”

Positive: verbal self-expression, initiate, action, ambi-

tious, determined, and pioneering.

Negative: aggressive, egocentric, overly driven, self-ab-

sorbed, overachieving, and single-focused.

Stuck (2)

Meaning:
“Stuck” vibrates to the 2, the number of intuition, sensitivity, cooperation, and dualistic energy. In

the negative, the dualistic energy of the 2 creates a sepa-

ration and a feeling of being stuck; “With all these bills,

I’ll be stuck in this job forever.” In the positive, the 2

strives to be a supportive, balanced, and cooperative en-

ergy or a team player; “stuck” then becomes more of a

wedge to be removed rather than a definite line separat-

ing sides; “I’m stuck on this problem, but I know just the

resource that can shed some light on it.”

Positive: balance, cooperation, sensitive, intuitive, sup-

portive, and harmonious.

Negative: contrast, codependent, uncertain, submissive,

passive, and hypersensitive.

278 Top Positive and Negative Words

Suppressed (7)

Meaning:
“Suppressed” vibrates to the 7, the deep, philosophical, teaching and learning, truth-seeker energy. As

the most active physical-plane number, the 7 desires to

be free to seek the deeper meaning in all things. In the

negative, the stubbornness of the 7 shines bright, resist-

ing stagnancy or being suppressed in any way; “I feel like

my true talents and gifts are being suppressed in this

job.” In the positive, being suppressed is viewed as a pos-

sible piece of the puzzle or deeper truth; “I’m a bit sup-

pressed in my creativity at the moment with other

things going on in my life, but I know I’ll get my writing

groove back as soon as things are less intense.”

Positive: wise, contemplative, achiever, truth-seeking, de-

termined, and hands-on.

Negative: stubborn, overactive, distrustful, hesitant,

skeptical, and loner.

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Unbelievable (4)

Meaning:
“Unbelievable” vibrates to the 4, the solid, stable, practical, and balanced foundation number. In the

negative, the focus is on the very practical, grounded,

and often skeptical energy of the 4, closing the door on

whatever is considered to be unbelievable; “I’m not buy-

ing his performance. It’s too unbelievable to be the real

deal.” In the positive, the steadfast and hardworking side

of the 4 leaves the door open to work toward achieving

what seems out of reach; “It’s too unbelievable to be

true, but stranger things have happened.”

Positive: balance, cooperation, sensitive, intuitive, sup-

portive, and harmonious.

Negative: uncertain, power-hungry, dominating, bossy,

withdrawn, and moody.

280 Top Positive and Negative Words

Won’t (9)

Meaning:
“Won’t” vibrates to the 9, the ambitious, idealistic, responsible humanitarian number. The 9 is responsi-

ble for all the incredible achievements seen in the