Threesomes: For Couples Who Want to Know More (22 page)

Opening yourself is what good sex is all about, no matter how intense or casual it can be. No matter what the situation is, sex is the joy of being open and free to other people, but most of all yourself. Discover yourself sexually and contemplate how far you want to go, it could be the beginning of a delicious awakening within you. Above all else entering the world of multi-partner sex should be something you are curious about exploring. The fact that you can travel this road with your boyfriend or girlfriend just adds to the pleasure because you have a close, intimate friend with you to enjoy the trip with. It’s about feeling curious about the other options, not about boredom. You are a beautiful person inside and out and you want to enjoy the ultimate in great sex with your partner. Or you could be awakened by your partner who thinks the world of you and would like to try exciting and new avenues of sex with you. This is all part of the experience of life.

It’s good to try different things, and it may turn out that it isn’t for you necessarily, but you can say that about trying all kinds of different things. To know what you like or don’t like you have to experience them for yourself, and there’s no shame in saying it wasn’t all it was cracked up to be, but boy wasn’t it fun finding out?

Living isn’t a spectator sport and although sex can certainly be with voyeurism and porn, it’s a lot more gratifying and satisfying to actually do than to watch or daydream. Ask yourself: why not? It’s as simple as that, why not? Talk about it with your partner or with a friend. As you have learned by now, having a three-way is a lot more common than you thought. Be daring and challenge yourself, you’ll be surprised by what actually lies deep inside you, you’re a lot sexier than you give yourself credit for. So explore those fantasies. Be safe, be kind, and be sweet to the people who are joining you for the celebration. It’s going to be quite a trip, and I wish you (and myself) the very best as no one should settle for anything less.

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ISBN-13: 978-1-59233-271-7
ISBN-10: 1-59233-271-4
eISBN-13: 978-1-61673-569-2

Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data

Speiser, Lainie.
       Threesomes : for couples who want to know more / Lainie Speiser
             p. cm.
       ISBN 1-59233-271-4
      1. Group sex. 2. Sexual fantasies. 3. Sexual excitement. I. Title.

HQ23.S64 2007

306.77--dc22

2007023918
CIP

Cover and interior design by Carol Holtz
Layout by Rachel Fitzgibbon
Photography on following pages by Jack Deutsch: 6–7, 16, 26, 35, 108–109, 111, 113, 114, 117, 119, 120, 122, 124–125, 129, 130, 133, 135, 137, 148

Printed and bound in Canada