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Genetic samples were obtained from a group of individuals
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The human visual system makes various assumptions
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Kip Williams found that even when he told people
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why would all those others watch the bully
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about 10 percent of students are bullied
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they involve belittling comments
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They think about committing suicide more
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A 1989 Finnish study assessed the level of victimization
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Suicide-related thoughts are actually quite similar
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Chapter 4: Fairness Tastes like Chocolate

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and independently performed an anagram
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Psychologist Tom Tyler found that defendants in court cases
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evidence for or against the notion that fairness
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studies typically observe activity in the anterior insula and the dACC
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a group of researchers from Cal Tech examined the neural responses
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these are referred to as
social rewards
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Signs that others like, admire, and love us
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asked participants for permission to contact their friends
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looked at how rewarding these touching statements really were
Castle, E., & Lieberman, M. D. (unpublished data). How much would you pay to hear “I love you”?

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our reactions to getting this rarely shared positive feedback
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participants in the scanner saw that strangers
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praise taps into the same reinforcement system
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Rewards can be divided
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The red patch is not intrinsically rewarding
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humans are supercooperators
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The
principle of reciprocity
is one of the strongest
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By performing a small favor for you
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a game called the
Prisoner’s Dilemma
I highly recommend doing a YouTube search for “golden balls,” a British game show based on the Prisoner’s Dilemma. The top few hits are highly entertaining.

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people still choose to cooperate
Hayashi, N., Ostrom, E., Walker, J., & Yamagishi, T. (1999). Reciprocity, trust, and the sense of control: A cross-societal study.
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How can we explain why folks cooperate
Kiyonari, T., Tanida, S., & Yamagishi, T. (2000). Social exchange and reciprocity: Confusion or a heuristic?
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“the first principle of economics
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“no other end, in all his actions
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“every man is presumed to seek
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known as the
axiom of self-interest
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What is surprising, though, is that
Hayashi, N., Ostrom, E., Walker, J., & Yamagishi, T. (1999). Reciprocity, trust, and the sense of control: A cross-societal study.
Rationality and Society, 11
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in addition to being self-interested
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people made decisions counter to their own self-interest
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“try to teach generosity and altruism
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We know what the brain looks like
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in the minds of people as they cooperate or defect
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ruling out long-term strategies like reputation building
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In Isaac Asimov’s book
The End of the Eternity
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“Scratch an ‘altruist’ and watch a ‘hypocrite’ bleed”
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there may be a hidden selfish motivation
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the psychological mechanism that motivates us to selflessly help
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what some call the warm glow of altruistic behavior
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to be selfish, you should do it in a very intelligent way
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an fMRI study looking at the activity in the brain
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the most selfish people on the planet: teenagers
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examined supportive behavior between boyfriends and girlfriends
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our support of others could contribute significantly to our well-being
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Adam Smith, one of the founders of modern economics
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“How selfish soever man may be supposed
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Many mammalian species have shown opioid-linked pleasure responses
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in humans most of our grooming is verbal
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