March With Venus: 94 Love Games (Book 7) (9 page)

Lady, Here are 45 Romantic Games Your Man Secretly Entertains

1. Sex with a younger woman

All men fantasize about younger women, no matter what your man tells you.

Secretly, he is dreaming about a young, sexy and fit female, the one you typically see featured on Playboy and other male-oriented magazines. He might not admit it, for fear it would hurt you, but the bottom line is that you can exploit that ‘weakness’ by acting, thinking and sometimes playing the ‘young female’ role.

2. The naughty nurse

Uniforms play a crucial role in the male psyche, whether they are worn by a nurse, cop, firefighter or cheerleader.

Your man finds the uniform beautiful and the woman wearing it even more gorgeous. He furtively wishes to make love to his female doctor or the nurse treating him when he is sick.

There’s something motherly and gentle emanating from nurses and other caregivers that appeals to men.

3. The hot schoolgirl

Continuing with the penchant for uniform and youth, let’s talk about the hot schoolgirl.

Your husband or boyfriend would want to ‘teach’ Intimacy 101 to a cute female pupil.

He imagines himself in a position of authority, having to care for a young and inexperienced woman.

Don’t confuse this fantasy with pedophilia, though.

Most men fantasize over schoolgirls who are over 21, and they focus more on the
idea
of a schoolgirl (with all the implications of sexual naiveté and mental purity of that age bracket) than an
actual
underage schoolgirl.

4. At work

Your man fantasizes about sex on his company’s premises.

Whether he has intercourse with a same-level colleague, a subordinate or his boss does not really matter.

It is the risk of getting caught, and maybe being terminated, which gets his energy and stamina going.

You can exploit that fantastic dream by showing up, unexpected, at work and initiating things, romantically speaking. He would be surprised at first, but would love it.

5. With his boss

A body-to-body exchange with a female superior is a massive turn-on for men.

They think they are the
man
for the short span of the intercourse, taking their revenge on a boss they may clandestinely hate.

Your man would want to romance his manager, not necessarily because he finds her attractive or unsightly, but because he wants to quench his thirst for power, to savor the professional authority he hopes to get one day.

6. Being dominated

Your sweetheart wants to be dominated, and that is not something a lot of men would admit to.

Maybe he wants you to be a dominatrix, playing the man’s role for a moment.

He would want you to ‘punish’ or ‘reward’ him, depending on how he ‘behaves’.

Such role-play is actually good to explore, and helpful to journey into long-held urges and maybe resolve past sexual trauma.

7. Threesome with two women

The holy grail of most men, if not all!

Your sweetheart daydreams about a threesome, of course with him being the king of that two-female harem.

He would want to say it to you, explore it with you, but wouldn’t dare.

Your lover imagines himself being pampered, massaged, covered with kisses, and romanced by two women – you being one, if needed.

8.  Group sex

Collective intercourse is appealing to some men, especially those who are the exhibitionist type.

If your darling falls in that category, chances are, he secretly would want to partake in group sex.

If he is the jealous type, he would want you out of the picture, so he can relish that mental, sexual food all by himself.

9. One-night stand

One-night stands are as popular in women’s brains as they are in men’s psyche.

That fantasy has to do with the spice and tantalizing allure of hot, steamy and risky sex with an equally hot, steamy and risky individual you may not, and don’t want to, see again.

Your man has that vision, and you can use the powerful lever of role-playing to help him fulfill it.

10. Air sex

Many men find sex tempting in an airplane flying thousands of meters above Earth.

Your darling probably falls in that category of ‘air sex’ lovers, so why don’t you give the intercourse of a lifetime by surprising him?

Granted, airliners don’t pay much attention to bathroom comfort and size – they have more important things, such as passenger safety, to think about.

But if you are lucky to fly in first-class or business, you might want to be creative with the air sex concept.

11. The sexy cop

Your aficionado dreams of being arrested or admonished by a sexy female cop.

He wouldn’t mind, within a reasonable range, paying a small traffic fine or discussing with the office administering the fine.

Again, this fantasy is deeply inbuilt in men, like the one entailing all uniformed women, whether they are in law enforcement, entertainers or caregivers.

12. ‘Santa Baby’

We all know Santa as a jolly white-bearded portly man.

But what you may not suspect is that many young boys wish Santa were a female.

When they grow up, they still carry that idea of a female Santa in them, and this is what creates the fantasy of ‘Santa Baby,’ a sexy woman clothed in Santa attire…again, the allure of the uniform.

13. ‘Russian spy’

The Cold War and its geopolitical implications – and maybe Hollywood’s productions – have left mental relics in several men, one of which is the Russian female spy.

Ideally, she is gorgeous (deadly gorgeous, that is), unafraid, drawn to adventure, and fit…all qualities that your man wished you had.

The perfect
femme fatale
, if you see what I mean!

And this is why he surreptitiously would want to call you Ekaterina, Anastasiya, Valeriya, Iskra or Klavdiya sometimes, just for the opportunity to implement part, if not all, of his fancy.

14. ‘French maid’

If Russian roulette is not your man’s thing, he might be into French maids.

Seen as gorgeous, caring and submissive – although that is far from reality – French maids populate the brains of many men.

Your partner would want you to give him occasionally some French kisses, eat French fries with him, savor a Dom Perignon, and spend a good night of romance with you.

Is that déjà vu for you?

No problem, do it again. It never hurts.

15. Submissive hottie

Your husband, fiancé or boyfriend dreams of a submissive hottie, whether she is a schoolgirl, nurse, firefighter or colleague…or you.

He would want to dominate for one night, have total control, give orders and be obeyed.

To play along the same fantasy, tell him one day, especially in the morning, something like “Honey, today is your day.

I want you to be able to serve you, make you the king of my day, the master of my life. Today is your day.

Your desires are orders to me.”

You can change the word ‘day’ with ‘night’ or whatever term that suits the occasion.

16. Voyeurism

Your sweetheart has a deep voyeuristic penchant, from online porn to park sex to dress room activity.

He loves to see other women undress, masturbate or have sex.

He would not acquiesce when asked the question, but he loves to see you undress, especially when you are unaware of his presence.

17. The virgin

Many males associate virginity with purity and therefore find ‘sexually new’ women considerably attractive.

They dream about making love to them, not just for the act, but because they want to be the first lover and hopefully the last if they do a good job initially.

You don’t have to be a virgin to appeal to your man, but you can act in a way that suggests sexual naivety.

That would turn your darling on – guaranteed!

18. Interracial

Interracial sex is fascinating yet still taboo in our society.

It is widely accepted publicly, but behind closed doors and at family dinner tables, the idea of cultural mixture is still frowned upon.

Which makes it all the more tantalizing…and appealing to your man…He secretly nurtures the idea of interracial intercourse, but would not dare express that view.

The racial setup for the fantasy does not matter much.

What does is the feeling of mating with a culturally different woman, with her senses, habits and sexual stimuli.

19. An older woman

Yes, you saw it coming.

Some men prefer young women, while others relish the company, maturity and sensual allure of older ladies.

In fact, most men, if given the option, would go for an older, fit and cute lady.

Think of Madonna, Iman, Angela Bassett or Sharon Stone.

Your sweetie wishes an older lady would make torrid love to him, and then gaze at him with the motherly look that is so comforting to many males.

20. No strings attached

Your sugar babe wants wild, uninhibited and instinctual sex – and remember this, he is not alone in that category.

You, too, want that!

So why don’t you find a way to create the right place, atmosphere and moment to give it to him.

In his mind, he could have that unbridled sex with you or someone else.

The bottom line is, he wants it raw – with no strings attached, literally.

21. An inaccessible lady

Here is a quick game: Take any woman, gorgeous or physically unpleasant, but make her completely inaccessible – and you have a peek into one of the most common male fantasies out there.

The fact that she is unapproachable challenges the innate hunter mentality of men, and the most courageous would do whatever is necessary to spend time with her.

Your man is no different, so make yourself sometimes inaccessible and sensually remote to awaken his (dormant) passion for you.

22. Celebrity sex

Your partner dreams of sex with his favorite celebrity.

He wouldn’t say it that way, especially if you are the jealous type.

But deep inside him, he fantasizes being held, cuddled and romanced by his preferred movie star or singer.

Every man – and I mean
every
man – fantasizes when watching love scenes involving his beloved actress.

That said, men are more ‘generous’ than women in that they fantasize about love scenes in general, whether or not their favorite actor or actress is in the scene.

23. Porn star sex

The competitive side of men pushes them to fantasize about sex with a porn star…just to see if they could ‘keep up.’

Note, however, that mating with an X-rated performer is not necessarily a turn-on for most women.

Your husband or boyfriend fantasizes about romance with an X celeb, hopefully as a one-night stand.

The truth of the matter is, he does not dream about just one adult actress, but many.

24. Getting caught in the act

Your man would surely never tell you this, but he wants you to make passionate, torrid love to him in a public area where there’s significant foot traffic.

Plus, he secretly wishes the cops would catch both of you in the act.

He wants the intercourse to be unexpected, his mood to be jolly and playful, your own mood to be similarly tempting – and most importantly, no music to cover any noise that potentially could reverberate during the act.

25. Private dancer

Your gent would want to have a private dancer…all to himself.

The notion of private dancer is very popular among men, and when that dance has sensual undertones or overtones, it is even better.

Don’t believe me?

Just look around and peek into everything from bachelor’s parties to strip-club attractions to the huge profits earned by movies featuring private dancers.

26. Current partner

This is good news.

Your sweetheart fantasizes about you, and chances are, he daydreams of you more than you think.

That means you must be doing something good…maybe already applying some of the fantasies listed in this book.

27. Sexy lingerie

For male subjects, vision plays a key role, whereas females react more to feelings, sensations and moods.

So saddle up and spice up your relationship with uncanny lingerie.

Your man would love it – and your relationship would thank you for it.

When it comes to sensual wear, men have different tastes, so talk to your sweetie and ask him subtly what he likes.