Big Girl (2010) (19 page)

"Maid of honor?" it said, and Victoria smiled. They were going to rope her into this one way or another, but she wouldn't have dreamed of denying her sister, or herself, that honor, if she was going through with this.

"Yes. Thank you. Of course!" she answered Gracie by text. So she was the maid of honor, and her baby sister was getting married. It had been quite a day!

Chapter 17

As soon as Victoria flew back to New York, two days after Gracie's graduation, she called Dr. Watson. Her psychiatrist was still in the same place, with the same number, and called Victoria back on her cell phone that night. And she asked how she had been. She said she was fine and was anxious to see her, so Dr. Watson managed to squeeze her in the next day. She noticed when Victoria walked in that she looked slightly more grown up but essentially the same. She hadn't changed. Victoria was wearing black jeans, a white T-shirt, and sandals. It was a hot New York summer day. And her weight was about the same as it had been the last time they met. No better and no worse.

"Is everything all right?" the psychiatrist asked her, sounding concerned. "You sounded like it was urgent."

"I think it is. I think I'm having some kind of wake-up call or identity crisis or something." She had been upset since graduation day. It was hard enough watching Gracie graduate, without having her get engaged on the same day. "My little sister got engaged a few days ago. She's twenty-two years old. She got engaged on her graduation day from college, just like my parents. They think it's fine since the man she's marrying, or wants to, has tons of money. I think they're all crazy. She's twenty-two years old. She won't have a job, he doesn't want her to. She wanted to work in journalism, now she doesn't care. And she's going to end up just like my mother, being a backdrop for him, and seconding all his opinions, of which her fiance has many, just like my father. She's going to lose herself married to this guy, and the thought of it is making me crazy for her. And all she wants to do is get married. I think she's too young. Or maybe I'm just jealous because I have no life. All I have is a job I love. That's it. And if I say anything about thinking she shouldn't get married, to her or my parents, they'll think it's sour grapes." The story poured out of her like marbles rolling down a hill.

"Is it sour grapes?" the shrink asked her bluntly.

"I don't know." Victoria was always honest with her.

"What do you want, Victoria?" the doctor pressed her. She knew it was time to do that now. Victoria was ready. "Not for her. For yourself."

"I don't know," she said again, but the doctor knew better.

"Yes, you do. Stop worrying about your sister. Think of yourself. Why are you back here? What do
you
want?" Tears filled Victoria's eyes as she listened to the question. She did know. She was just afraid to say it, or admit it to herself.

"I want a life," she said softly. "I want a man in my life. I want what my sister wants. The difference is I'm old enough to have it, and I never will." Her voice suddenly grew stronger, and she felt braver. "I want a life, a man, and I want to lose twenty-five pounds by next June, or at least twenty." It was clear.

"What's happening in June?" The doctor looked puzzled.

"Her wedding. I'm the maid of honor. I don't want everyone to feel sorry for me because I'm a loser. Her fat spinster older sister. That's not who I want to be at her wedding."

"Okay. That's fair. We've got a year to work on it. That sounds reasonable to me," the psychiatrist said, smiling at her. "There are three projects here. 'A life,' you said, and you have to define what that means to you. A man. And your weight. We've got work to do."

"Okay," Victoria said with a quaver in her voice. It was an emotional moment for her. She had had an epiphany. She was tired of not having what she wanted, and not even admitting it to herself because she thought she didn't deserve it, because her parents had told her so. "I'm ready."

"I think you are," the doctor said, looking pleased, as she glanced at the clock behind Victoria's shoulder. "See you next week?" Victoria nodded, suddenly aware of all that she had to do. This was bigger than a wedding. She had to go on a serious weight-loss program, and do whatever she had to do to keep it off this time. She had to make an effort to get out in the world and meet men, and dress for the part. And open her life to other opportunities, people, places, things, everything she had been longing for but never had had the courage to do. This was scarier than when she'd moved to New York, and harder to organize than any wedding. But she knew she had to do it. When Gracie got married, Victoria would be thirty. By then she wanted her dream too, not just Gracie's.

She walked back from the doctor's office feeling empowered. She walked into the apartment, went straight to the kitchen, and started cleaning out the fridge. She started with the freezer and threw all the frozen pizzas and eight pints of ice cream into the garbage. As she was doing it, Harlan and John walked in. John was working at the museum with him that summer, during summer break from school.

"Oh shit, this looks serious," Harlan said, looking at her in amazement. The chocolate candy she'd brought home from a school party went next, and a cheesecake she had left in the fridge half eaten. "Is there a message here, or are you just doing spring cleaning?"

"I'm losing twenty-five pounds by June, and keeping them off this time."

"Is there some reason for this resolution?" he asked cautiously, as John reached into the fridge and took out two beers. He opened them and handed one to Harlan and took a swig of his own. It tasted good. But beer wasn't her thing. She preferred wine, which was fattening too. "A new guy maybe?" Harlan asked her, looking hopeful.

"That too. I just haven't met him yet." She turned to face them as she closed the freezer door. "Gracie's getting married in June. I'm not going to be the maid of honor at that wedding, twenty-five pounds overweight and living like an old maid. I went back to my shrink."

"This sounds like Sherman's march on Georgia," Harlan said, looking pleased for her. This was exactly what she needed and had for years. He'd been losing hope for her recently. Her eating habits were as bad as ever, and her weight never changed. "You go, girl! Let us know if there's anything we can do."

"No more ice cream. No pizza. I'll do the treadmill. I'll go to the gym. Maybe Weight Watchers. A nutritionist. A hypnotist. Whatever it takes, I'll do it."

"Who's Gracie marrying, by the way? Isn't she a little young? She just graduated last week."

"She's way too young, and it's totally stupid. My father loves him because he's rich. It's the same guy she's been dating for four years."

"That's too bad. But you never know. Maybe it'll work."

"I hope so for her. She's going to give up her whole identity to marry him. But it's what she wants, or thinks she does."

"It's a long way till June. A lot could happen by then."

"That's true," she said with a fierce light in her eye that he hadn't seen in years, maybe ever. She was on a holy mission. "I'm counting on it. I have one year to get my life and body into shape."

"You can do it," Harlan said with conviction.

"I know I can," she said, and finally believed it, wondering what had taken her so long. For twenty-nine years she had believed her parents, that she was ugly, fat, and doomed to failure because she was unlovable. And she suddenly realized that just because they said it, or thought so, didn't mean that it was true. She was bound and determined now to shed the shackles they had put on her. All she wanted now was to be free.

She signed up at Weight Watchers the next day, and came home with instructions and a scale for food. And she enrolled at a new gym the day after. They had beautiful machines, a weight room, a dance studio, a sauna, and a pool. Victoria went there every day. She jogged around the reservoir every morning. She followed her diet diligently, and went in to be weighed once a week. She talked to Gracie nearly every day about the wedding, and her mother more than she wanted to. It was all they thought about now. Victoria called it Wedding Fever. She had lost nine pounds by the first day of school, and she felt good. She was in shape. She still had a long way to go. She had reached a plateau, but she was determined not to get discouraged. She'd been there before. Many times. But this time she was not going to let go, and she was seeing her shrink regularly. They were talking about her parents, her hopes for her sister, and they were finally talking about what she wanted for herself. She had never done that before.

Her students felt the difference in her too. She was stronger and more sure of herself. Helen and Carla told her they were proud of her.

Victoria was annoyed that her sister wasn't working and hadn't since graduation. She wasn't even looking for a job now that she was engaged, which Victoria didn't think was good for her, or her self-esteem. She said she had no time, but Victoria knew there was more to life than just planning a wedding, and being married to a wealthy man. Her shrink told her it wasn't her problem, and to concentrate on herself, so she was. But her concern for her sister troubled her too.

She only lost two pounds in September. But she had lost eleven in all, so she was halfway to her goal, and looking fit, when Gracie announced in October that she was coming for the weekend to look at wedding gowns, and pick bridesmaids' dresses, and she wanted Victoria's help. Victoria wasn't sure she was ready to do that, but Gracie was the baby sister she loved and could never deny anything to, so she agreed, despite a stack of papers she had to correct that weekend. Her shrink asked why she hadn't asked Gracie to come some other time. The wedding wasn't until June.

"I couldn't do that," Victoria said honestly.

"Why not?"

"I'm not good at saying no to her. I never do."

"Why don't you want her to come this weekend?" They were into total honesty.

"I have work to do," Victoria said easily as the doctor looked at her and called her on it.

"Is that really the reason?"

"No. I haven't lost enough weight, and I'm scared she'll pick a bridesmaid dress I look awful in. All her friends are the same size she is. They're all a size two or four. They've never heard of a size fourteen."

"You are you. You won't be a size fourteen by next June," the doctor reassured her. Victoria hadn't wavered in her resolve.

"What if I am?" she said with a look of panic. Her dream was to be a size eight. But even a ten would have been thrilling if she could maintain that weight.

"Why do you think you won't succeed?"

"Because I'm afraid my father's right, and I'm a loser. Gracie just proved him right again. She's going to be married at twenty-two to the perfect guy. I'll be thirty by the time she gets married. I'm still not married. I don't even have a boyfriend, or a date. And I'm just a schoolteacher."

"And a good one," the doctor reminded her. "You're the head of the English department at the best private high school in New York. That's not small potatoes." Victoria smiled at what she said. "Besides, you're the maid of honor. You can wear a variation or even something entirely different, if she picks something that won't look good on you. She's giving you a chance to choose."

"No," Victoria corrected her. She knew her baby sister. She might be willing to let Harry run the show, but she had her own ideas about some things. "She's giving me a chance to watch
her
choose."

"Then this is an opportunity to do things differently with her," the therapist suggested.

"I'll try." But Victoria didn't sound convinced.

Gracie arrived on Friday morning while Victoria was still at school, and she rushed back to the apartment to meet her as soon as she could. She had left the key under the mat outside the apartment, and Gracie was inside, waiting for her, walking at a brisk pace on the treadmill.

"This thing is pretty good," she said as she grinned at her sister. She looked like an elf or a child on the big machine.

"It should be," Victoria answered. "It cost us a fortune."

"You should try it sometime," Gracie said as she hopped off.

"I have been," Victoria said, proud of the weight she'd lost so far, and disappointed that Gracie didn't notice. Her head was totally into the wedding, as she hugged her older sister. She wanted to go downtown right away and start shopping. She had a list of stores she wanted to get to. Victoria had been at school all day and felt like a mess. She'd had to get there early for a department meeting. But she got ready in five minutes, and they left to go downtown. It was hard not to be distracted by the giant rock on her finger. "Aren't you afraid you might get hit on the head wearing that thing?" She still worried about her. She would always be her baby sister, no different than the day she'd walked her into first grade.

"No one thinks it's real," Gracie said nonchalantly as they got out of the cab at Bergdorf's.

They went upstairs to the wedding department and started looking at gowns. They had a dozen of them hanging on racks and spread out around them as Gracie looked around and shook her head. None of them looked right to her, although Victoria thought they were gorgeous. Gracie shifted gears then and asked to see bridesmaids' dresses. She had a list of designers and colors that she wanted to check out. And they brought everything they had to her. It was going to be a formal evening wedding. Harry was going to wear white tie, and the groomsmen black tie. And so far she was thinking of peach, pale blue, or champagne for the bridesmaids, all of them colors that Victoria could wear. She was so fair and had such pale skin that there were some colors she just couldn't get away with, like red, for instance, but Gracie assured her that she would never put her bridesmaids in red. She looked like a little general marshaling her troops as the saleswomen brought her things. Gracie was in full control, and planning what appeared to be a major national event, like a rock concert or a world's fair or a presidential campaign. This was her finest hour, and she was going to be the star of the show. Victoria couldn't help wondering how her mother was dealing with it. It was a little overwhelming at close range, and their father was sparing no expense. He wanted the Wilkeses to be impressed, and his favorite daughter to be proud. In the heat of her intense concentration on what she was doing, Gracie still hadn't noticed the weight Victoria had lost, which hurt her feelings, but she didn't want to be childish about it, and she paid attention to the gowns that Gracie was picking out. She had three maybes in mind when they left. And there were going to be ten bridesmaids. It occurred to Victoria, when Gracie told her, that if she had been getting married, she didn't even have ten friends. She would have had Gracie as her only attendant, and that was it. But Gracie had always been a golden child. And now she was the star, and loving every minute of it. She was becoming more like their parents than Victoria wanted to admit. She came from a family of stars, and Victoria felt like a meteor that had fallen to earth in a heap of ash.