Why Men Love Bitches (33 page)
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Authors: Sherry Argov
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #2The women who have the men climbing the walls for them aren’t always exceptional. Often, they are the ones who don’t appear to care that much.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #3A woman is perceived as offering a mental challenge to the degree that a man doesn’t feel he has a 100 percent hold on her.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #4Sometimes a man deliberately won’t call, just to see how you’ll respond.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #5If you start out dependent, it turns him off. But if it is something he can’t have, it becomes more of a challenge for him to get it.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #6It is your attitude about yourself that a man will adopt.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #7Act like a prize and you’ll turn him into a believer.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #8The biggest variable between a bitch and a woman who is too nice is fear. The bitch shows that she’s not afraid to be without him.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #9If the choice is between her dignity and having a relationship, the bitch will prioritize her dignity above all else.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #10When a woman doesn’t give in easily and doesn’t appear docile or submissive, it becomes more stimulating to obtain her.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #11Being right on the verge of getting something generates a desire that has to be satisfied.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #12A man knows which woman will give in to last-minute requests.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #13Whether you have terms and conditions indicates whether you have options. Almost immediately, you present yourself as a doormat or a dreamgirl.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #14If you smother him, he’ll go into defense mode and look for an escape route to protect his freedom.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #15Whenever a woman requires too many things from a man, he’ll resent it. Let him give what he wants to give freely; then observe who he is.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #16A bitch gives a man plenty of space so he doesn’t fear being trapped in a cage. Then…he sets out to trap her in his.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #17If you tell him you are not interested in jumping into a relationship with both feet, he will set out to try to change your mind.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #18Always give the appearance that he has plenty of space. It gets him to drop his guard.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #19More than anything else, he watches to see if you’ll be too emotionally dependent on him.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #20He must feel that you choose to be with him, not that you need to be with him. Only then will he perceive you as an equal partner.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #21If a man has to wait before he sleeps with a woman, he’ll not only perceive her as more beautiful, he’ll also take time to appreciate who she is.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #22Sex and the “spark” are not one and the same.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #23Before sex, a man isn’t thinking clearly and a woman is thinking clearly. After sex, it reverses. The man is thinking clearly and the woman isn’t.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #24Every man wants to have sex first; whether he wants a girlfriend is something he thinks about later. By not giving him what he wants up front, you become his girlfriend without him realizing it.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #25A man intuitively senses whether sexuality comes from a place of security or from a place of neediness. He knows when a woman is having sex to appease him.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #26Bad habits are easier to form than good ones, because good habits require conscious effort. Waiting encourages this effort.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #27If you pull the sexual plug at the last minute, he’ll label you a tease.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #28If he makes you feel insecure, let your insecurity be your guide.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #29A quality guy fantasizes about a woman who genuinely loves sex.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #30Any time a woman competes with another woman, she demeans herself.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #31When there is that undeniable “spark,” there is only one key to the lock.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #32Let him think he’s in control. He’ll automatically start doing things you want done because he’ll always want to look like “a king” in your eyes.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #33When you cater to his ego in a soft way, he doesn’t try to get power in an aggressive way.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #34When you appear softer and more feminine, you appeal to his instinct to protect. When you appear more aggressive, you appeal to his instinct to compete.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #35He’ll let a woman who becomes his doormat pay for dinner on the first couple of dates, but he wouldn’t think of it with his dreamgirl.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #36The token power position is for public display, but the true power position is for private viewing only. And this is the only one that matters.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #37If you give him a feeling of power, he’ll want to protect you and he’ll want to give you the world.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #38When a woman acts as though she’s capable of everything, she gets stuck doing everything.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #39Men don’t respond to words. They respond to no contact.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #40Talking about the “relationship” too much takes away the element of the “unknown” and thus the mystery.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #41Men respect women who communicate in a succinct way, because it’s the language men use to talk to one another.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #42When you are always HAPPY; And he is always free to GO; He feels LUCKY.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #43If you allow your rhythm to be interrupted, you’ll create a void. Then, to replace what you give up, you’ll start to expect and need more from your partner.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #44Most women are starving to receive something from a man that they need to give to themselves.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #45A woman looks more secure in a man’s eyes when he can’t pull her away from her life, because she is content with her life.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #46The second a woman works overtime to make herself fit his criteria, she has lowered the standard of that relationship.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #47You jump through hoops any time you repeatedly make it very obvious you’re giving your “all.”
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #48You have to keep from being sucked down into quicksand. Unless you maintain control over yourself, the relationship is doomed.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #49Jumping through hoops often has a negative outcome: He sees it as an opportunity to have his cake and eat it, too. But when you stay just outside his reach, he’ll stay on his best behavior.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #50The nice girl gives away too much of herself when pleasing him regularly becomes more important than pleasing herself.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #51The relationship may not be right for you if you find yourself jumping through hoops. When something is right, it will feel easier and much more effortless.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #52When you nag, he tunes you out. But when you speak with your actions, he pays attention.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #53When a man takes a woman for granted, he still looks for reassurance that she is still “right there.”
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #54When the routine becomes predictable, he’s more likely to give you the same type of love he had for his mother-and the odds that he will take you for granted increase.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #55Negative attention is still attention. It lets a man know that he has you—right where he wants you.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #56When you treat him casually as though he’s a friend, he’ll come your way. Because he wants things to be romantic, but he also wants to be the pursuer.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #57A little distance combined with the appearance of self-control makes him nervous that he may be losing you.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #58A man takes a woman for granted when he’s interested, but will no longer go out of his way.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #59When you nag, you become the problem, and he deals with it by tuning you out. But when you don’t nag, he deals with the problem.