Tickle His Pickle: Your Hands-On Guide to Penis Pleasing (20 page)

I wanna hold your gland.
Men LOVE having their penises touched, licked, rubbed, fondled, tugged, squeezed, blown on and talked to. Try sleeping with it in your hand!

Deep Throating

Some women can take in an entire penis without gagging. Others can do it with practice. But you? Would you? Could you? Here’s how:

Since you’re actually “swallowing” him—both of you must align the curve of his shaft to the curve of your throat.

His penis will seal off your windpipe, so you won’t be able to breathe. No inhaling or exhaling when he’s in deep. Take your breaths on the out-strokes.

Lie on your back, and tilt your head down off the edge of the bed. This will open your throat and reduce your impulse to gag.

Gagging will be part of it. The better you get at deep-throating, the less you’ll gag.

You are in charge. Always. Vocalize your boundaries and take it at
your
pace. If you’re not comfortable, don’t do it.

If you can’t keep up the pace, just deep throat him once in a while during your oral extravaganza. He’ll be thrilled!

Sex Gadgets

If your guy is a gadget-lover, he’ll flip when you unwrap a sex toy you’ve selected just for him—or for both of you!

These add-ons for hand- and blowjobs boost the sensations from your fingers, tongue and lips. The choices today are limited only by your own imagination.

Vibrators.
I’ve yet to meet a guy who didn’t like the feeling of a vibrator at the base of his shaft or under his balls. Just pick up a little love egg (“bullet”) or cylindrical vibe and load it up with batteries. Then try these tricks:

Run it on and around his nipples during your blowjob.

Tickle the tip of his nose.

Glide it against his tender-spot, balls and taint while you kiss his penis.

Lightly run it along his shaft, from tip to bottom.

Gently touch it to the head of his penis for only a moment.