8 Ways to Make Her Come Orally (6 page)

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Blindfold her as you read the story.

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Have her create her own story as the hero goes down on the heroine. Ask her to give you specific instructions, and follow them.

SEX FACT

In one experiment, Olympic athletes were asked to imagine running in the Olympics as they were hooked up to machines to measure their physiological responses. Interestingly, the same muscles fired when they imagined the race as when they actually ran the race. What does this have to do with sex, you ask? You can create your reality in your mind.

The Sexpert Says

Women have porn, too. But we call it erotica. Words are more important than pictures in erotica, while the reverse is true for porn. The language is also different, with men preferring the hard physical words such as
suck, fuck
, and
thrust
and women being more aroused by sensual terms such as
caress
.

Both serve the same purpose. They titillate and arouse, fueling our fantasies and encouraging us to be more creative in lovemaking.

WAKE-UP CALL

Does she hate waking up in the mornings? Give her a wake-up call that will send her off to conquer the world. The next time she has an early meeting, become her human alarm clock. She’ll be very grateful to discover that your swirling and twirling tongue has replaced the bleating of the clock.

Perfect the Move

• Set your cell phone to wake you.

• Pay attention to the tongue moves that bring her to orgasm fast. This is a quickie.

The Wake-Up Call Scenario

Today she has to make a big presentation, and she has been anxious about it for days. You help her relax and start the day right by giving her an orgasm. What puts things into perspective better than an orgasm?

As the tension releases from her body, you tell her she is beautiful, glowing—and a very competent businesswoman, too, of course.

Last-Minute Preparations

While she is still sleeping, slide your body down hers. Accommodate her sleeping position and try to get your head in the right place without waking her. She sleeps on her back? Perfect. If she is on her side, move the top leg gently to create an opening.

If she is wearing pajamas or panties, slip them aside and slide your tongue between her labia lips, gently opening her up.

Run your hand up and down the small of her back to bring her energy down to her pelvis.

The Wake-Up Call Technique

• Feather your tongue softly over the head of her clitoris, going back and forth, to and fro. It takes effort and concentration to touch this lightly. Think of a butterfly’s wings fluttering rapidly.

• Continue those feather strokes. Flutter the wings diagonally left then right.

• When she’s aroused, awake or not, lick the shaft of her clit with the flat of your tongue, then with your pointed tongue. Do this pattern for some time. Observe her and be in her flow.

• When she is showing signs of accelerated breathing, she is almost there. Go back to the head and give a few jabs with your tongue.

SEX FACT

The hormone oxytocin, which is released at orgasm, also plays a role in the desire to fall back asleep after sex, which takes effect about fifteen to twenty minutes after orgasm.

The Sexpert Says

A lot can be learned with simple observation. As a general rule, if you ever see a woman scoot towards you, she wants more pressure. If she moves her pelvis back and forth, or up and down quickly, it probably means faster. If she pulls away, less pressure.

THRILL HER FROM HEAD TO TOE

Her feet are sexy, too. According to reflexologists, applying pressure to certain parts of your hands and feet stimulates a corresponding organ. I am quite certain that there are some super nerve endings traveling from her feet to her clit. (Why else would we love shoes so much?)

Give her a pedicure. Worship her toes. Move up those gorgeous legs. And finish her off.

Perfect the Move

• The best way to know how to give a pedicure—and how good it feels—is to get one yourself. If you’ve never had one in a salon, now is the time.

The Thrill Her from Head to Toe Scenario

Who isn’t on a budget? Do you know anyone who hasn’t made some lifestyle changes, including giving up or limiting little luxuries such as salon pedicures?

The next time she pulls out her home pedi kit, take it out of her hand and offer to give her your own version. If she looks at you sideways, remind her of your steady hand and all the things you’ve painted.

Last-Minute Preparations

Fill a large bowl with warm, soapy water.

Sit her down somewhere comfortable with pillows behind her back to push her forward. Let her feet soak for ten minutes.

Next, apply a cream or an oil to her feet.

Start by massaging the top of the foot, then the instep, and then the heel.