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2
M. Warrington, personal communication, 19 November 2015.

3
J. Kasper, ‘Co-destiny: A conceptual goal for parental bereavement and the call for a “positive turn” in the scientific study of the parental bereavement process', Capstone thesis, University of Pennsylvania, 1 August 2013.

4
R.N. Remen MD, blog post, ‘Walking the Path', 19 August 2015,
www.rachelremen.com/walkingthepath/
(accessed 13 October 2015).

Chapter 15

1
G.A. Bonanno,
The Other Side of Sadness: What the new science of bereavement tells us about life after loss
, New York, NY: Basic Books, 2009, p. 72.

2
T. Attig,
How We Grieve: Relearning the world
, rev. edn, New York, NY: Oxford University Press, 2011, p. 189.

3
For a comprehensive review of this literature, see B.L. Root and J.J. Exline, ‘The role of continuing bonds in coping with grief: Overview and future directions',
Death Studies
, 2014, 38, pp. 1–8.

4
W.J. Worden,
Grief Counseling and Grief Therapy: A handbook for the mental health professional
, 3rd edn, New York, NY: Springer Publications, 2002, p. 50.

5
D. Quinlan, personal communication, 20 October 2015.

6
Bonanno, p. 73.

7
E. Kübler-Ross and D. Kessler,
On Grief & Grieving: Finding the meaning of grief through the five stages of loss
, New York, NY: Scribner, 2014, p. 61.

Chapter 16

1
M.E. Seligman, ‘Building resilience',
Harvard Business Review
, 89(4), 2011, pp. 100–6.

2
M.E. Seligman,
Flourish: A visionary new understanding of happiness and well-being
, New York, NY: Free Press, 2011, pp. xii, 349.

3
J. Kasper, ‘Co-destiny: A conceptual goal for parental bereavement and the call for a “positive turn” in the scientific study of the parental bereavement process', Capstone thesis, University of Pennsylvania, 1 August 2013.

4
R.G. Tedeschi and L.G. Calhoun, ‘Post-traumatic growth: Conceptual foundations and empirical evidence',
Psychological Inquiry
, 2004, 15(1), pp. 1–18.

5
R.G. Tedeschi and L.G. Calhoun, ‘A clinical approach to post-traumatic growth', in A. Linley and K.S. Joseph (eds),
Positive Psychology in Practice
, Hoboken, NJ: John Wiley & Sons, 2004.

Chapter 18

1
M.I. Norton and F. Gino, ‘Rituals alleviate grieving for loved ones, lovers, and lotteries',
Journal of Experimental Psychology: General
, 2014, 143(1), pp. 266–72.

2
Norton and Gino, p. 267.

3
S. Wheeler-Roy and B.A. Amyot,
Grief Counseling Resource Guide: A field manual
, New York, NY: New York State Office of Mental Health, 2004.

Chapter 19

1
G. Norton,
The Life and Loves of a He Devil: A memoir
, London: Hodder & Stoughton, 2014, p. 287.