Cf. EPICTETUS Fragments x. o u ì o u , be patient and endure; ERASMUS Adages II. vii. 13 sustine et abstine . 1573 Husbandry (rev. ed.) II. 12 V Both beare and forbeare, now and then as ye may, then wench God a mercy [reward you], thy husband will say. 1688 Discourse of Building, &c. House of God 53 To bear and forbear here, will tend to rest. 1761 Letter 20 Feb. (1967) 253 I know that in this world one must bear and forbear. 1871 Character xi. The golden rule of married life is, ‘Bear and forbear’. 1940 Body, Boots & Britches xix. You must take two bears two live with you—Bear and Forbear. patience and impatience ; tolerance