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Counseling Through Your Bible Handbook
The Bible is richly relevant when it comes to the difficult dilemmas of life. Here are 50 chapters of spiritual wisdom and compassionate counsel on issues such as anger, adultery, depression, fear, guilt, grief, rejection, and self-worth.
How to Rise Above Abuse
Compassionate, practical, hands-on guidance for the toughest issues to talk about—childhood sexual abuse, spiritual abuse, verbal and emotional abuse, victimization, and wife abuse. Filled with the hope and healing only Christ can give.
How to Handle Your Emotions
In Scripture, God gives counsel that helps us process our full range of emotions in a healthy way. Learn how to better navigate your emotions by understanding their definitions, characteristics, and causes, as well as the solutions that lead to emotional growth.
How to Forgive…When You Don’t Feel Like It
Though we know God has called us to forgive, we find ourselves asking hard questions: What if it hurts too much to forgive? What if the other person isn’t sorry? How can I let the other person off the hook for doing something so wrong? June Hunt speaks from experience as she offers biblical answers, hope, and true freedom through forgiveness.
Keeping Your Cool…When Your Anger Is Hot
This book explores the causes and kinds of anger and the biblical steps toward resolution. You will learn how to identify the triggers of anger, ways of dealing with past angers, what the Bible says about righteous and unrighteous anger, and how to bring about real and lasting change.
Seeing Yourself Through God’s Eyes
How you view yourself can have a profound effect on your everyday living. The key is to see yourself through God’s eyes. Discover the great riches of your identity in Christ in the 31 devotions in this book.