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They began shuffling forward in order to hear. Some even raised their hands with questions. It was as if fifty glazed doughnuts became faces with eyes and ears. It took me a moment to comprehend the change, but the other artists understood. Their expressions cried, Unfair! I hadn't pretended to any expertise in working with children, as had been the strategy of their dog-and-pony shows, but accidently connected with the fantasies of the people who did the hiring. Ambitious bureaucrats whose careers doomed them to remain in public school forever, they unexpectedly had a chance to work with someone who had an agent. “Who's going to star in the movie?” one principal wanted to know, while another cornered me in the men's room: “Do you think you could get a script to Scorsese?”

After a spirited competition for my services, I was assigned to a vocational technical high school in a decaying industrial city north of Boston where, according to the buzz of the arts administrators, someone like me “could really make a difference.”

Apparently not to the office secretary, who did not lift her eyes from her keyboard on the morning of my first class but called over her shoulder to the assistant principal, who sneered at my jacket and tie and walked past me without a word. His name was Mr. Burger, pronounced, in the Boston area, Bur-GAH. Five-foot-four inches tall with a nose like a red bell pepper and a shaved head, he wore a black turtleneck with rolled-up sleeves and swung his forearms like nightsticks.

“I picked up some newspapers on the way to school,” I said when I caught him looking at the stack under my arm. In truth I'd planned to kill some time with them in a toilet stall, but a glance at my schedule showed classes back to back. “I thought the students and I might read them together and talk about what constitutes a narrative.”

“Did you say
read
?” I had apparently given Mr. Bur-GAH his second good laugh of the day. His first had been my hair, which I wore in what was called an afro in those days, a large frizzy brown bush the shape of a Tootsie Roll lollipop, but mostly he ignored me, scanning the halls as he walked, like a camera over a bank teller's shoulder. “Just try to keep 'em in the room till the bell rings.”

He stood in the classroom doorway as nineteen students made their way to their desks as slowly as was humanly possible. “This is Mr. Wood,” he said.

“Looks like Mr. Nappy-head to me,” one student said. “Where you get your hair cut, Nappy?”

“You mean lawn-mowed,” offered another.

“Should we broil him or fry him, Mr. Bur-GAH?”

A flicker of mischief lit the vice principal's eyes and his emerging smile built anticipation like a drum roll. “Have it your way!” He beamed at the spontaneous outpouring of laughter and high-fives. As he turned to leave he handed me a class list and checked his watch with a theatrical flourish, betting on how long I'd last.

There are students who completely ignore you, who remain collectively deaf to your best intentions and repel your carefully prepared plans. There are students who groan with every request you make, however logical or mundane, and others who gape, as if they had never seen anything remotely like you, as if you were a creature so alien to their experience that you did not register as human.

This class didn't look at me at all, but at each other, dead expressions come alive with sadistic possibility. I felt like the watchman in
A Night at the Museum
as the T. Rex and the Civil War mannequins advanced in a conspiracy to send me screaming down the escalator steps.

When in doubt take attendance. “Carbo, Peter S.” I said.

“Fuck you,” said a kid in the front row. He wore sneakers the size of anti-gravity boots and sat in the position commonly assumed for a pelvic exam.

“Knott, Daniel. Just say Here, please.”

Mr. Knott pointed to his crotch. “Here, please.”

“Munson, Robert.” No answer.

“Henry Turturo?” No answer. “. . . called Robert Munson's mother a meat head.”

A chair flew back. “You said that?”

The accusation was angrily refuted. “Did fucking not!”

I checked them off. “Turturo, here. Munson, here.”

Sneakers liked that. “Pretty good, Nappy.”

“Pinola, Bruce?”

Now they were on their guard.

“Did you know Pinola means condom in Spanish?”

“Fuck you it does,” said a voice in the second row.

“Good morning, Mr. Pinola.” Following the filthiest exchange of language ever induced by the taking of attendance, we buckled down to the day's lesson, an improvised version of my original plan, which now involved a dramatic reading of the comic strips.

Mr. Bur-GAH was peaking into the classroom as the bell rang and I was struck by his resemblance to Uncle Fester of the Addams Family. He gave me an astonished thumbs-up as all nineteen students passed from the room in good humor.

Bruce Pinola said, “You gonna be here tomorrow, Nappy?”

“Mr. Nappy to you,” I corrected him.

“We love this guy, Mr. Bur-GAH.”

Carbo, the sneaker man, was also enthused. “Tomorrow I'm bein' Garfield.”

Word spread. Kids flocked to my classes to be insulted during attendance and vie to play John the Turtle and the Dookie Bird. As I headed down the hallway for lunch, Mr. Bur-GAH slipped his fist under my armpit and steered me into the teachers' lounge with an affectionate half nelson, a fetid yellow closet of a room crowded with twelve wax-like figures around a Formica table.

“This is Nappy, the artist.” Mr. Bur-GAH announced. “He kicked ass this morning.”

One bloodless face looked up with a mouthful of egg salad on white. “They're tenth graders,” he said. “Let's see how he does with the seniors this afternoon.”

“Jerk-off,” Mr. Bur-GAH mumbled. “Don't listen to him.” He punctuated his admonition with an index finger in my solar plexus. “Listen, after you get settled in I want to talk to you about this idea I have about a miniseries set in a high school.”

In the course of my career as an artist in the schools I have been required to teach classes from kindergarten to twelfth grade, to serve school lunches, to supervise after-school detention. I have produced a circus and a musical revue with a former composer for Saturday Night Live, adapted classics as plays to be performed by children who could not read, and invented game shows. I have organized student-teacher conga lines, choreographed
dances with special needs students, conducted radio interviews with household pets, and filmed an 8 mm movie about making Jell-o. My most popular turn by far was the invention of Dr. Memory.

Frantic one morning for some trick, however bizarre, to amuse the jaded students of a suburban middle school in an affluent suburb north of Providence, I loaded a shoebox with natural flavor extracts off the kitchen spice rack. Vanilla, grapefruit, watermelon, pomegranate, wheat grass, there were twenty-eight of them in all. My act involved wearing a turban (read: beach towel), blindfolding the students and waving a bottle of extract under their noses while asking them where they were being transported in their minds, and then of course making them write about it. The first classes were difficult, the most skeptical students resistant.

“Yuch puke! Get that out of my nose.”

“The girl before me had boogers!”

“It tickles. You're making me sneeze.”

The next day, however, I brought in extra towels and turned the troublemakers into my assistants. I added a boom box to the act, playing one of my wife's belly dancing tapes. With a little encouragement they were dreaming themselves back to early childhood, to family vacations, and writing about the cities in which their grandparents were born. Every class wanted a visit from Dr. Memory.

 

In six years as an artist-in-residence, however, I could
not do one stitch of my own work during any semester in which I was working in the schools. My time off was spent recovering my self-image and my inner strength, self-medicating and amassing ever more
schtick
so as not to be eaten alive in the classroom. I am more than incredulous that some of our country's favorite writers have a thriving teaching career and I have no idea how they do it. In the limited times I have taught on the college level, my students' family problems, their bad habits, idiotic decisions, and insulting opinions, not to mention the demands of reading and evaluating their work, have preempted all my energy for writing. The sensitivity needed to say something positive to a puerile and sentimental childhood story; the facility to encourage the one talented writer in the class while remaining mindful of the feelings of the duds; the discipline required to stop myself from rewriting their crap entirely; the tact not to question their choice to become a writer at all; the requisite soundness of mind to admit to myself that any winsome 20-year-old who follows me around like a puppy and tells me my work changed her life is probably under psychiatric care and most assuredly trouble; in short all the psychological heavy lifting that does not appear on the syllabus but is incumbent on a good teacher, exhausted the same limited supply of emotional energy I had for my own work.

I made good money as an artist in the schools and had no shortage of assignments but eventually returned to the grinding anonymity of restaurant work. I wasn't
teaching them how to be fiction writers, or even, like the poets and dancers and photographers, imparting a watered down version of my trade. I was just an entertainer, a birthday party clown, a kind of Bozo-the-Artist who came into their classes with a new act every week. Frankly, I felt like a fraud.

Although once, decades later, a balding man in his thirties stopped me on the street. “Hey wait!” He had a little girl in hand, probably his daughter, and he ran up to me excitedly. “Weren't you the guy who came into my classroom one day with a shoebox full of flavor extracts?” I admitted that I was. “That was so cool, man,” he said to his daughter. “That was one of the only cool things that ever happened in school. What's your name again?”

I was surprised to find myself reacting with no small measure of pride. “Why, Mr. Nappy, the artist.”

I
n the autumn of the year I turned 30 years old Ronald Reagan was elected president, a right-wing working majority overtook both houses of congress, and Marge's husband returned from a Caribbean vacation to announce that he was getting his vasectomy reversed and wanted a divorce. As the country embraced core family values, Marge and I, in practice if not by design, were suddenly a traditional monogamous couple, splitting our time between her house on Cape Cod and a cheap but enormous apartment in Cambridge, taking a family membership at the food co-op, acquiring two kittens, dividing kitchen chores, and hunkering down every day to write.

Some four years before, I had contrived to meet Marge when my upstairs neighbor announced, coincidently on the afternoon of the first Passover Seder, that a notorious writer friend was coming to visit.
Woman
on the Edge of Time
, now a sci-fi classic, had just been released, and before that,
Small Changes
and
Dance the Eagle to Sleep
, both bibles of the New Left. In a photograph I had seen in
Time
magazine, Marge Piercy, with severe black bangs, a cigarette pursed in Gallic lips, looked like a French movie star. Because I couldn't imagine what I might say upon being introduced, I interrupted their conversation with a kind of impromptu performance piece, appearing with a bowl of egg whites while attempting to whip them with a wire whisk. Nine out of ten successful women would have written me off as some incompetent busybody trying to make macaroons; Marge saw a profile from JDate: 26-year-old Jewish man, curly hair, likes to cook.

Marge received all kinds of flack from women friends and feminist intellectuals. He'll leave her when she gets old, was the common wisdom. “Toy Boy” was a phrase directed at me more than once, and my favorite, overheard from a semiotician at a communication theory conference, “Big hair, big sex.” But we seemed to click as well as any serious woman writer at the height of her fame could with a shallow young man fourteen years her junior.

Marge's novels were bringing in six-figure advances. Lucrative speaking engagements kept her on the road. After a contentious divorce, she had managed to keep the house. I was pleased with the progress of a new book I had begun. Life was good, unfortunately too good, a situation that always upset my inner balance, made me
feel undeserving and caused me, however unconsciously, to seek a return to a more uncomfortable level: to set things right again, or in my case, wrong.

As the humid dregs of the long hot summer surrendered to a classic New England fall, Marge was off on a four-day gig in the Midwest. Disinclined to spend yet another weekend alone, I decided to take a scenic drive to visit an old friend in Vermont. When I had seen her last, Karen had been in an abusive marriage. Late one afternoon she casually strolled into the living room, told her husband she was going to the corner store for cigarettes, reminded him that one of his favorites, shepherd's pie, was in the oven, herded her two young children into her previously packed station wagon, and disappeared. Some years later she surfaced with a new address, a new career, and a new name, Kharma Mountainchild, in a small town just south of Rutland.

We had a pizza on the night I arrived and watched TV on her bed with the kids. She put them to sleep and we drank a little wine. Although we had not been friends for long we had shared many secrets, having been partners in a popular lay psychotherapy movement called Re-evaluation Counseling, one in which we took turns as counselor and client. Chief among the rules—listen without interrupting, never make judgments, etc.—was that partners could never have sex. There was really no
reason then to ask her to take her head off my shoulder.