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Index

 

Abandonment

Ache

Adaptations
Error Management Theory on
infidelity as
violence as

Adaptive bias

Adaptive errors

Affairs. See Infidelity

Africa

Age
desirability and
mate homicide and
stalking and

Agoraphobia

Alcohol intoxication

Alexandra, Czarina

Allport, Gordon

Ammassalik Eskimos

Anger

Angier, Natalie

Antigua Guatemalans

Appearance.
See also
Attractiveness

Arabia

“Armadillo and the Footprint, The”
(story)

Arnham, Netherlands

Attractiveness.
See also
Appearance

Atwater, Lynn

Augustine, St.

Australia

Austria

Aztecs

 

Baiga

Bailey, Michael

Baker, Robin

Barkin, Ellen

“Battered Husband Syndrome, The”
(Steinmetz)

Battered women, 6–7, 102–5.
See also
Violence

Beast in Man, The
(Zola)

Belgian Congo

Bellis, Mark

Betzig, Laura

Bhugra, Dinesh

Birds

Blood Simple
(film)

Bond, testing of

Brazil

Breath magic

Bride-price

Bringle, Robert

Bryson, Jeff

Bue

Burley, Nancy

Buunk, Bram

 

Cage, Nicholas

Calahonda, Spain

Canada

Capitalism

Casual sex

Chagnon, Napoleon

Chicago, Illinois

Children

Chimbos, Peter

Chimpanzees

China

Choe, Jae

Clanton, Gordon

Clark, Russell

Clinical Handbook of Couple Therapy
(Pittman and Wagers)

Clinical treatment of jealousy

Clinton, Bill

Clinton, Hillary

Clitoridectomy

Co-evolution
female infidelity and
guilt and

Cognitive reconstrual

Commitment
co-evolution of
love and
testing

Competition

Concealed ovulation

Concealment

Concorde Fallacy

Conscientiousness, lack of

Coping strategies
clinical treatment
culturally prescribed
denial
derogation of competitors
emotional manipulation
evoking jealousy.
See
Evoking jealousy
loyalty

psychological
revenge and retribution
self-enhancement
self-reliance and self-bolstering
suppressing jealousy
vigilance

Crawford, Cindy

Cristo Rey

Culture
coping strategies and
infidelity and
love and
mate homicide and
universality of jealousy in
variations in expression of jealousy
violence and

Cumae

 

Daly, Martin

Darwin, Charles

Date violence

Deception

Dedden, Lisa

Defection

Defense mechanisms

DeKay, Todd

Denial

Depths of the Soul, The
(Stekel)

Derek, Bo

Derogation of competitors

des Barres, Pamela

Descent of Man
(Darwin)

Desirability, differences in
Othello syndrome and

DeSteno, David

Detroit, Michigan

Developmental stability

Diamond, Jed

Dijkstra, Pieternel

Diminishing returns, principle of

Divorce
infidelity and
sexual dissatisfaction and

DNA fingerprinting

Docherty, John

Dominant rivals

Double shot of infidelity

Double standard

Douglas, Michael

Dunedin, New Zealand

Duntley, Joshua

 

Egg getters

Ellis, Bruce

Ellis, Jean

Emotional disengagement

Emotional infidelity
cues to
double shot theory of
in homosexual relationships
Sophie’s choice of

Emotional instability

Emotionality

Emotional manipulation

Emotional satisfaction

Emotional wisdom

Emotions

Envy

Erectile dysfunction

Eritrea

Error Management Theory (EMT)

Estrus

Eternal triangle

Evoking jealousy
benefits of

Evolution.
See also
Co-evolution
of conflict between the sexes
emotional infidelity and
Error Management Theory on
female infidelity and
of guilt
of love
mate homicide and
promiscuity and
of sperm competition
trading up and

Evolution of Desire: Strategies of Human
Mating
(Buss)

Evolved Homicide Module Theory

 

Fatal Attraction
(film)

Fear of Flying
(Jong)

Fears

Female infidelity
individual differences in
as mate insurance
personality traits and
reasons for avoiding
sexual gratification and
sexy sons and
symmetry and
trading up and

Fertility

Fisher, Helen

Flowback

Flowers, Jennifer

Fonda, Bridget

Foster, Jodie

France

Frank, Robert

Fua

 

Gangestad, Steve

Geary, David

Gelles, Richard

Genes, pursuit of superior

Genital mutilation

Germany

Gilbert, Paul

Gisu

Glass, Shirley

Glose, Glenn

Gottman, John

Graham, David

Gray, John

Great Britain

Greece

Greeley, Andrew

Greiling, Heidi

Guam

Guatemalan Indians

Guerrero, L. K.

Guilt

 

Hamilton, Ontario

Hamlet
(Shakespeare)

Hansen, Gary

Hasegawa, Mariko

Hasegawa, Toshikazu

Haselton, Martie

Hatfield, Elaine

Health

Hesse, Herman

Hinckley, John W.

Hite, Shere

Homosexual relationships

Hopi Indians

Hostile forces of nature

Hoteling, G. T.

Houston, Texas

Hrdy, Sarah

Hughes, Francine

Hughes, James

Hungary

Hupka, Ralph

 

Impotence. See Erectile dysfunction

I’m with the Band: Confessions of a Groupie
(des Barres)

Incas

Indonesia

Infertility

Infibulation

Infidelity.
See also
Coping
strategies; Emotional infidelity;
Female infidelity; Othello
syndrome; Sexual infidelity;
Violence
cues to
defense mechanisms and
desirability differences and
discovery of
double shot of
emotional and sexual satisfaction and,
evolution and
personality and
prevalence of
principle of diminishing returns and
reputation and
signal detection and
spousal behavior and
susceptibility to

Information processing procedures

Input

Iraq

Ireland

Israel

It Could Happen to You
(film)

 

Jacobson, Neil

Jamaica

Jankowiak, William

Japan

Jealousy paradox

Johnson, Ralph

Jones, Adrianne

Jong, Erica

 

Kagan, Jerome

Kamikaze sperm

Kendall, Erica

Kingston, Jamaica

Kinsey, Alfred

Kipling, Rudyard

Kipsigis

Kitzinger, C.

Korea

Krafft-Ebing, Richard von

Kreutzer Sonata
(Tolstoi)

! Kung San

 

Labriola, Kathy

Laughter in the Dark
(Nabokov)

Letterman, David

Lewinsky, Monica

Love
evolution of
universality of
unrequited

Lovebug

Lovett, Lyle

Loyalty

Luo

Luyia

 

Malaysia

Male menopause

Male Menopause
(Diamond)

Mantegazza, Paolo

Margolis, Randie

Martin, J.

Mate homicide
evolutionary explanation for
fantasies of
laws about
women most vulnerable to

Mate insurance

Mate preferences

Mate value.
See also
Desirability, differences in

Mathes, Eugene

Mating effort

Mating strategies
mixed

Mayans

May-December marriages

Mead, Margaret

Meaning of jealousy

Mediterranean cultures

Mehinaku

Men.
See
Sex differences

Menopause
male

Menopause and the Mind
(Warga)

Mexico

Mixed mating strategies

Monogamy

Montand, Yves

Mormons

Morphs

Mullen, Paul

Murder. See Mate homicide

Myths about jealousy

 

Nabokov, Vladimir

Narcissism

National Institute of Justice

Natural selection

Netherlands

New Mexico

New South Wales, Australia

Nicholas, Czar

Nyoro

 

Oneida Society

Open marriage

Opportunity costs

Orgasm, female

Othello
(Shakespeare)

Othello syndrome
alcohol intoxication and
desirability differences and
discovery of infidelity and
erectile dysfunction and
Error Management Theory on
symbiotic pathology in
women’s declining sexual desire and
women’s sexual dissatisfaction and

Output

Ovulation

 

Paternity, uncertain

Pathological jealousy.
See also
Othello syndrome

Patriarchy

Paul, Luci

Peacocks

Perez, Rosie

Personality traits

Pheromones

Pines, Ayala

Pinker, Steven

Pittman, Frank

Poland

Polyamory

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