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index

A

about-
face.org
,
81
abstinence,
252–53
,
261
AFE-zone (anterior fornix erogenous zone),
164–65
alcohol abuse,
82–83
alcohol and intercourse,
145
,
212
Allies in Healing
(Davis),
40
Allison, Sadie,
62
,
75
American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists,
89
American Medical Association,
49
American Pie
(movie),
99
Anal-Ease, warning about,
248
Anal Pleasure and Health
(Morin),
249
anal sex
CDC survey on,
241–42
experimental exploration of,
74
level of interest in,
241
,
242–43
lubrication for,
181
,
246–47
tips for enjoying,
244–49
with toys,
181
,
243
,
246
women’s interest in,
243–44
animal kingdom,
50
,
226
anterior fornix erogenous zone (AFE-zone),
164–65
antidepressant medications,
83–85
antigay violence,
229
arousal
for first intercourse,
146–47
Masters and Johnson’s on,
18–21
for orgasms during intercourse,
131
phases of,
20
,
21
,
79
signs of,
216
techniques for boosting,
76–79
A-spot,
164–65
Association of Professional Piercers,
187

B

Bass, Ellen,
39
battery-operated vibrators,
170
,
171
BDSM (bondage, discipline/domination, and sadomasochism),
182–83
Becoming Orgasmic
(Heiman and Lopiccolo),
89
bedroom boredom versus Spicing It Up game,
189–92
benzocaine,
248
Bible on masturbation,
48
Big Big Love
(Blank),
81
Big Book of Masturbation, The
(Cornog),
62
Biological Exuberance,
129
,
226
birth control
doubling up on methods,
270
emergency contraception,
260
for first time intercourse,
146
reference chart on,
252–59
staying informed about,
251
birth control pills,
83
,
256–57
bisexual, defining,
225
Blank, Hanne,
81
Blank, Joani,
72
blended fantasies,
33
bodily fluids and STIs,
261–62
body image issues,
80–82
,
88–89
,
96–98
Body Image Workbook, The
(Cash),
81
bondage, discipline/domination, and sadomasochism (BDSM),
182–83
boys,
4
,
5
,
43–45
,
51–53
brainstorming sex play options,
189–92
breast cancer, early discovery of,
2–4
Brinkley, David,
52
Brown University,
4–5
,
6–7
buildup to orgasm,
23
,
26
,
55–56
,
173
,
199
butt plugs,
181
,
243
butt sex.
See
anal sex

C

Cash, Thomas,
81
Castleman, Michael,
212
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention,
241–42
cervix,
117
childhood, learning about masturbation during,
4
,
5
,
43–45
,
51–53
chlamydia,
261–62
circulatory conditions affecting orgasm,
82–83
cleaning sex toys,
183
Clinton, Bill,
95
clitoris
coital alignment position and,
120–21
,
131
glans and shaft of,
70
,
72
great lovers and,
200–201
humming over,
111
overview,
16–18
piercing the,
184–85
sensitivity of,
22–23
,
25
size of clitoris and intensity of orgasm,
18
stimulating during intercourse,
126–27
,
141
tips for partners,
34–38
vibrators and,
173
cock rings,
183
coital alignment technique,
120–21
,
131
coming, female orgasm as,
15
communication
on clitoral sensitivity,
23
on faking orgasm,
219–21
during oral sex,
104
,
106–9
,
110
on oral sex,
98–99
,
114
overview,
36–37
saying no,
98
sighs and moans as,
204
on STIs and HIV,
269
on what feels good,
24
,
34–35
,
140
,
198–200
with women who fail to orgasm,
218–19
See also
troubleshooting
condoms
for anal sex,
247
for birth control,
252–53
female condoms,
252–53
,
266–67
guide to,
263–66
latex condoms and oil-based lubricants,
135
,
136
,
264–65
making dental dams from,
268
practicing masturbation with,
142
on vegetable sex toys,
180
Consumer Reports,
265
Cornog, Martha,
62
Courage to Heal
(Bass and Davis),
39
cowgirl position,
117–18
crabs,
261–62
crisscross position,
119–20
cunnilingus.
See
oral sex on women

D

Davis, Laura,
39
,
40
Dear Abby,
4
delivery boy mentality,
212
dental dams,
95–96
,
135
,
245
,
261–62
,
267–68
diaphragms,
254–55
Diddling for Donations fundraiser,
58
dildos,
176
,
178–79
,
227
directness of clitoral touching,
35
disorders of sex development (DSD),
237–40
Dodson, Betty,
26
,
62
,
65
doggie style,
116
,
117–18
,
141
dreams, having orgasms during,
37
DSD (disorders of sex development),
237–40
Durex Global Sex Survey,
175
,
242

E

EC (emergency contraception),
260
ED (erectile dysfunction),
207–8
ejaculation, female,
150–51
,
157–63
Elders, Joycelyn,
52
Elusive Orgasm, The
(Cass),
89
emergency contraception (EC),
260
endorphins,
16
Ensler, Eve,
18
erectile dysfunction (ED),
207–8
erections.
See
penis
erogenous zones,
24
erotica, utilizing,
30–31
,
77
erotica from ancient cultures,
92
excitement phase of arousal,
20
,
21
exercise, orgasms from,
61–62
.
See also
Kegel exercises

F

fake orgasms,
216–22
fantasizing,
29–34
,
76–77
,
133
,
182–83
fasting blood sugar test,
84
fear of antigay violence,
229
fear of oral sex,
96–98
fear of orgasm,
79
female, defining,
9
female condoms,
252–53
,
266–67
female ejaculation,
150–51
,
157–63
Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot
(Sundahl),
161
female genital mutilation,
67
,
238–39
female orgasm lecture program development,
7–8
female to male (FTM) transpeople,
236–37
Femalia
(Blank),
72
,
98
fertility awareness method for birth control,
256–57
fingering
anal,
246–47
G-spot and,
156–57
during lesbian sex,
116
,
227
,
230
during oral sex,
112
as preparation for first intercourse,
146
fingernails and fingering (ouch),
34
,
230
Five Steps to Your First Orgasm
Step 1: start alone,
68–69
Step 2: befriend your vulva,
69–72
Step 3: touch yourself experimentally,
72–74
Step 4: touch yourself regularly,
74–75
Step 5: experiment with arousal boosters,
76–79
fluid-bonded partnerships,
262
food play,
111
foreplay,
109
,
139
,
197–98
,
199
40 Days and 40 Nights
(film),
25
Freud, Sigmund,
134
FTM (female to male) transpeople,
236–37

G

gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender (GLBT) issues,
224
,
229
gay men,
9
,
224
,
229
gender identity
intersex community,
225
,
237–40
overview,
9
,
224
transgender community,
225
,
234–37
genderqueer community,
9
,
225
,
236
genitals
befriending your,
69–72
female genital mutilation,
67
,
238–39

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