Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy

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Dedication

This book is dedicated to Aaron T. Beck, M.D., in admiration of his knowledge and courage and in appreciation of his patience, dedication and empathy
.

Contents

Dedication

Preface

Introduction

Part I. THEORY AND RESEARCH

1. A Breakthrough in the Treatment of Mood Disorders

2. How to Diagnose Your Moods: The First Step in the Cure

3. Understanding Your Moods: You Feel the Way You Think

Part II. PRACTICAL APPLICATIONS

4. Start by Building Seff-Esteem

5. Do-Nothingism: How to Beat it

6. Verbal Judo: Learn to Talk Back When You’re Under the Fire of Criticism

7. Feeling Angry? What’s Your IO?

8. Ways of Defeating Guilt

Part III. “REALISTIC” DEPRESSIONS

9. Sadness Is Not Depression

Part IV. PREVENTION AND PERSONAL GROWTH

10. The Cause of It All

11. The Approval Addiction

12. The Love Addiction

13. Your Work Is Not Your Worth

14. Dare to Be Average: Ways to Overcome Perfectionism

Part V. DEFEATING HOPELESSNESS AND SUICIDE

15. The Ultimate Victory: Choosing to Live

Part VI. COPING WITH THE STRESSES AND STRAINS OF DAILY LIVING

16. How I Practice What I Preach

Part VII. THE CHEMISTRY OF MOOD

17. The Search for “Black Bile”

18. The Mind-Body Problem

19. What You Need to Know about Commonly Prescribed Antidepressants

20. The Complete Consumer’s Guide to Antidepressant Drug Therapy

Suggested Resources

Index

Acknowledgments

About the Author

About the Book

Notes and References (Chapters 17 to 20)

Other Books

Copyright

About the Publisher

Preface

I am pleased that David Burns is making available to the general public an approach to mood modification which has stimulated much interest and excitement among mental health professionals. Dr. Burns has condensed years of research conducted at the University of Pennsylvania on the causes and treatments of depression, and lucidly presents the essential self-help component of the specialized treatment that has derived from that research. The book is an important contribution to those who wish to give themselves a “top flight” education in understanding and mastering their moods.

A few words about the evolution of cognitive therapy may interest readers of
Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy
. Soon after I began my professional career as an enthusiastic student and practitioner of traditional psychoanalytic psychiatry, I began to investigate the empirical support for the Freudian theory and therapy of depression. While such support proved elusive, the data I obtained in my quest suggested a new, testable theory about the causes of emotional disturbances. The research seemed to reveal that the depressed individual sees himself as a “loser,” as an inadequate person doomed to frustration, deprivation, humiliation, and failure. Further experiments showed a marked difference between the
depressed person’s self-evaluation, expectations, the aspirations on the one hand and his actual achievements—often very striking—on the other. My conclusion was that depression must involve a disturbance in thinking: the depressed person thinks in idiosyncratic and negative ways about himself, his environment, and his future. The pessimistic mental set affects his mood, his motivation, and his relationships with others, and leads to the full spectrum of psychological and physical symptoms typical of depression.

We now have a large body of research data and clinical experience which suggests that people can learn to control painful mood swings and self-defeating behavior through the application of a few relatively simple principles and techniques. The promising results of this investigation have triggered interest in cognitive theory among psychiatrists, psychologists, and other mental health professionals. Many writers have viewed our findings as a major development in the scientific study of psychotherapy and personal change. The developing theory of the emotional disorders that underlies this research has become the subject of intensive investigations at academic centers around the world.

Dr. Burns clearly describes this advance in our understanding of depression. He presents, in simple language, innovative and effective methods for altering painful depressed moods and reducing debilitating anxiety. I expect that readers of this book will be able to apply to their own problems the principles and techniques evolved in our work with patients. While those individuals with more severe emotional disturbances will need the help of a mental health professional, individuals with more manageable problems can benefit by using the newly developed “common sense” coping skills which Dr. Burns delineates. Thus
Feeling Good
should prove to be an immensely useful step-by-step guide for people who wish to help themselves.

Finally, this book reflects the unique personal flair of its
author, whose enthusiasm and creative energy have been his particular gifts to his patients and to his colleagues.

Aaron T. Beck, M.D.

Professor of Psychiatry
,

University of Pennsylvania

School of Medicine

Introduction (Revised Edition, 1999)

I have been amazed by the interest in cognitive behavioral therapy that has developed since
Feeling Good
was first published in 1980. At that time, very few people had heard of cognitive therapy. Since that time, cognitive therapy has caught on in a big way among mental health professionals and the general public as well. In fact, cognitive therapy has become one of the most widely practiced and most intensely researched forms of psychotherapy in the world.

Why such interest in this particular brand of psychotherapy? There are at least three reasons. First, the basic ideas are very down-to-earth and intuitively appealing. Second, many research studies have confirmed that cognitive therapy can be very helpful for individuals suffering depression and anxiety and a number of other common problems as well. In fact, cognitive therapy appears to be at least as helpful as the best antidepressant medications (such as Prozac). And third, many successful self-help books, including my own
Feeling Good
, have created a strong popular demand for cognitive therapy in the United States and throughout the world as well.

Before I explain some of the exciting new developments, let me briefly explain what cognitive therapy is. A cognition
is a thought or perception. In other words, your cognitions are the way you are thinking about things at any moment, including this very moment. These thoughts scroll across your mind automatically and often have a huge impact on how you feel.

For example, right now you are probably having some thoughts and feelings about this book. If you picked this book up because you have been feeling depressed and discouraged, you may be thinking about things in a negative, self-critical way: “I’m such a loser. What’s wrong with me? I’ll never get better. A stupid self-help book like this couldn’t possibly help me. I don’t have any problem with my
thoughts
. My problems are
real
.” If you are feeling angry or annoyed you may be thinking: “This guy Burns is just a con artist and he’s just trying to get rich. He probably doesn’t even know what he’s talking about.” And if you are feeling optimistic and interested you may be thinking: “Hey, this is interesting. I may learn something really exciting and helpful.” In each case, your thoughts create your feelings.

This example illustrates the powerful principle at the heart of cognitive therapy—your feelings result from the messages you give yourself. In fact, your thoughts often have much more to do with how you feel than what is actually happening in your life.

This isn’t a new idea. Nearly two thousand years ago the Greek philosopher, Epictctus, stated that people are disturbed “not by things, but by the views we take of them.” In the Book of Proverbs (23: 7) in the Old Testament you can find this passage: “For as he thinks within himself, so he is.” And even Shakespeare expressed a similar idea when he said: “for there is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so” (
Hamlet
, Act 2, Scene 2).

Although the idea has been around for ages, most depressed people do not really comprehend it. If you feel depressed, you may think it is because of bad things that have happened to you. You may think you are inferior and destined to be unhappy because you failed in your work or
were rejected by someone you loved. You may think your feelings of inadequacy result from some personal defect—you may feel convinced you are not smart enough, successful enough, attractive enough, or talented enough to feel happy and fulfilled. You may think your negative feelings are the result of an unloving or traumatic childhood, or bad genes you inherited, or a chemical or hormonal imbalance of some type. Or you may blame others when you get upset: “It’s these lousy stupid drivers that tick me off when I drive to work! If it weren’t for these jerks, I’d be having a perfect day!” And nearly all depressed people are convinced that they are facing some special, awful truth about themselves and the world and that their terrible feelings are absolutely realistic and inevitable.

Certainly all these ideas contain an important germ of truth—bad things do happen, and life beats up on most of us at times. Many people do experience catastrophic losses and confront devastating personal problems. Our genes, hormones, and childhood experiences probably do have an impact on how we think and feel. And other people can be annoying, cruel, or thoughtless. But all these theories about the causes of our bad moods have the tendency to make us victims—because we think the causes result from something beyond our control. After all, there is little we can do to change the way people drive at rush hour, or the way we were treated when we were young, or our genes or body chemistry (save taking a pill). In contrast, you can learn to change the way you think about things, and you can also change your basic values and beliefs. And when you do, you will often experience profound and lasting changes in your mood, outlook, and productivity. That, in a nutshell, is what cognitive therapy is all about.

The theory is straightforward and may even seem overly simple—but don’t write it off as pop psychology. I think you will discover that cognitive therapy can be surprisingly helpful—even if you feel pretty skeptical (as I did) when you first learn about it. I have personally conducted more than thirty thousand cognitive therapy sessions with hundreds
of depressed and anxious individuals, and I am always surprised about how helpful and powerful this method can be.

The effectiveness of cognitive therapy has been confirmed by many outcome studies by researchers throughout the world during the past two decades. In a recent landmark article entitled “Psychotherapy vs. Medication for Depression: Challenging the Conventional Wisdom with Data,” Drs. David O. Antonuccio and William G. Danton from the University of Nevada and Dr. Gurland Y. DeNelsky from the Cleveland Clinic reviewed many of the most carefully conducted studies on depression that have been published in scientific journals throughout the world.
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The studies reviewed compared the antidepressant medications with psychotherapy in the treatment of depression and anxiety. Short-term studies as well as long-term follow-up studies were included in this review. The authors came to a number of startling conclusions that are at odds with the conventional wisdom:

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